Confession Session - LOCK THIS THREAD
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I confess that I never fap to girls in undies or bikini. They need to at least bare their boobs, (or be tickled), until I ahem "take action"! :ninja:
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@Light:
I confess that I never fap to girls in undies or bikini. They need to at least bare their boobs, (or be tickled), until I ahem "take action"! :ninja:
Not even one-piece swimsuit? :ninja:
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I confess that when I'm working out math problems, I say out loud what I'm writing down on paper. It helps me keep track of where I am.
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Lol it'd be funny to do that when you are on a writing xD
I confess that when I read something loudly I don't understand a thing. Seriously I can't tell what I've read. -
@Light:
I confess that I never fap to girls in undies or bikini. They need to at least bare their boobs, (or be tickled), until I ahem "take action"! :ninja:
Unrelated, but your sig is awesome and I crack a huge grin everytime I see it.
Though related: I'm not a guy so I probably don't have a legitimate opinion on the subject but yeah, I've always thought that suggestive imagery is stupid and a waste of time. If you're going to show them 98% naked, might as well be totally naked. A bikini is almost naked to the point that, how can that really be any cleaner than someone totally naked? I mean are nipples the only sexual/suggestive part of the breasts. It's totally ok to see cleavage and underboob but not the nipple? Might as well go all the way, eh?
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Now watch in a decade or two it'll totally be ok to show areolae on TV, but still no nips. :ninja: That'll come afterwards.
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You know, sometimes I wonder if it was good idea to have separate thread for our sexual orientations and issues or something? :ninja:
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Nonsense. This thread has already derailed onto the topic of masturbation…4, 5 times now?
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Unrelated, but your sig is awesome and I crack a huge grin everytime I see it.
Though related: I'm not a guy so I probably don't have a legitimate opinion on the subject but yeah, I've always thought that suggestive imagery is stupid and a waste of time. If you're going to show them 98% naked, might as well be totally naked. A bikini is almost naked to the point that, how can that really be any cleaner than someone totally naked? I mean are nipples the only sexual/suggestive part of the breasts. It's totally ok to see cleavage and underboob but not the nipple? Might as well go all the way, eh?
I think it's just the psychological effect of suggestion. You know, leaving something to the imagination? I mean, I like women and nakedness is great, don't get me wrong, but something like sexy or suggestive clothing goes a long way when it comes to getting the brain started.
On the other hand, I think it's weird that shirtlessness is perfectly ok for guys and not for girls. I mean, it's just boobs, we've all seen them. What's the mystery?
@Light:
You know, sometimes I wonder if it was good idea to have separate thread for our sexual orientations and issues or something? :ninja:
If my memory serves me well, I believe that we did at some point. Not sure where it went.
Also, I echo Arei on the subject of your sig. I would actually argue that sig has made me fonder of Bellamy and Dellinger. -
You know, leaving something to the imagination? I mean, I like women and nakedness is great, don't get me wrong, but something like sexy or suggestive clothing goes a long way when it comes to getting the brain started.
I agree. In a sense, doesn't seeing a naked body all the time (i.e constant nudity) just diminish the appeal or the surprise of seeing it? But something like a sexy bikini makes your mind wander….kinda lets you look without being too hot under the collar, you know?
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@Light:
I confess that I never fap to girls in undies or bikini. They need to at least bare their boobs, (or be tickled), until I ahem "take action"! :ninja:
…..............I love you.
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@Light:
You know, sometimes I wonder if it was good idea to have separate thread for our sexual orientations and issues or something? :ninja:
Yeah I think that was tried before. Wasn't there a sex thread or something of that nature?? Maybe I'll go look. Everyone just came back here so it didn't really work out.
I think it's just the psychological effect of suggestion. You know, leaving something to the imagination? I mean, I like women and nakedness is great, don't get me wrong, but something like sexy or suggestive clothing goes a long way when it comes to getting the brain started.
On the other hand, I think it's weird that shirtlessness is perfectly ok for guys and not for girls. I mean, it's just boobs, we've all seen them. What's the mystery?
Probably since most men don't sexualize their own pecs or nipples (or man boobs), but they do sexualize female breasts. It's all just a product of men forcing their views of sexuality regarding women as comment decency and "what's right.". I think if it ever were turned around, we'd see a lot of naked women walking around in the media that aren't sexualize, it's just as normal as a shirtless guy walking around in their own house. Maybe then sex appeal won't be as powerful as it is. People probably think that's a bad thing but I'd love to walk outside without a shirt on and it not be a big deal, just saying.
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http://apforums.net/showthread.php?t=37806 I think this was the more recent thread, the relationship one.
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I agree. In a sense, doesn't seeing a naked body all the time (i.e constant nudity) just diminish the appeal or the surprise of seeing it? But something like a sexy bikini makes your mind wander….kinda lets you look without being too hot under the collar, you know?
I think the biggest factor is how said sexiness is portrayed.
Lookit One Piece. Nami and Robin usually have revealing outfits nowadays, but they're not usually shoved in your face. Yeah you can see cleavage, and they got skirts that barely go past their crotches, but it's not like Oda's constantly panning over them and going "HEY GUYS LOOK ASS TITTIES ASS AND TITTIES".
And then lookit Fairy Tail. It's Fairy Tail.
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I think the biggest factor is how said sexiness is portrayed.
Lookit One Piece. Nami and Robin usually have revealing outfits nowadays, but they're not usually shoved in your face. Yeah you can see cleavage, and they got skirts that barely go past their crotches, but it's not like Oda's constantly panning over them and going "HEY GUYS LOOK ASS TITTIES ASS AND TITTIES".
And then lookit Fairy Tail. It's Fairy Tail.
I've always wondered if Oda really wanted to overly over sexualize Nami and Robin (and other female characters) or if that was something that was pushed on him by editors and other license holders that suggested sexier characters would push the brand further. I mean seeing how they used to be compared to now, Oda always gave the ladies their sexy/suggestive moments and it's not like they were ever prude. It just got to the point it was ridiculous.
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I've always wondered if Oda really wanted to overly over sexualize Nami and Robin (and other female characters) or if that was something that was pushed on him by editors and other license holders that suggested sexier characters would push the brand further. I mean seeing how they used to be compared to now, Oda always gave the ladies their sexy/suggestive moments and it's not like they were ever prude. It just got to the point it was ridiculous.
Where's the sudden increase in fanservice in relation to when he got married?
I mean yeah, editors and marketing definitely want that stuff so they can make mad dolla, but you don't need to make them supah seksi in-universe to do that. Just look at Evangelion. If Oda didn't wanna do it, he wouldn't have to.
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Where's the sudden increase in fanservice in relation to when he got married?
I mean yeah, editors and marketing definitely want that stuff so they can make mad dolla, but you don't need to make them supah seksi in-universe to do that. Just look at Evangelion. If Oda didn't wanna do it, he wouldn't have to.
I honestly don't exactly remember where that point was??
Though I guess, the series was already mad popular by that point maybe there wasn't so much pressure to make the female characters more sexy and Oda just evolved into drawing them like that. That seems a bit outrageous to me considering how it was presented really well before, and now not so much. I could be reading too much into it and it's just a coincidence.
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I find certain kinds of clothes sexier than nude woman just standing there. The fact that something isn't fully revealed has its own passion, kinda like mystery you are slowly finding out. And mysteries are cool.
Though I think it all defends on a woman herself and how is she able to show her sexiness.And about woman walking with bare breasts. I think that if a man has good body (it's not just muscled one to me), him walking shirtless is really sexy. But cause of some reasons I have no idea about, I find boobs sexier. Maybe it's cause they are round fluffy things, which are fun to play with.
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I find certain kinds of clothes sexier than nude woman just standing there. The fact that something isn't fully revealed has its own passion, kinda like mystery you are slowly finding out. And mysteries are cool.
Though I think it all defends on a woman herself and how is she able to show her sexiness.And about woman walking with bare breasts. I think that if a man has good body (it's not just muscled one to me), him walking shirtless is really sexy. But cause of some reasons I have no idea about, I find boobs sexier. Maybe it's cause they are round fluffy things, which are fun to play with.
I wish they felt fluffy P:
It generally seems that guys like the tease of nudity rather than full frontal nudity. I guess that could be said about women and shirtless men. I prefer the shirtless-with-the-pants-pulled-slightly-down-and-undone look rather than full on nudity but there's a time and place that full nudity is sexy and alluring as the tease. Though when I look at nudes of either gender its more often than not for artistic purposes than something sexual.
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I prefer the shirtless-with-the-pants-pulled-slightly-down-and-undone look rather than full on nudity but there's a time and place that full nudity is sexy and alluring as the tease.
I agree, it's that 'mystery' moment again :ninja:
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Is there any sex thread on apf?
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I confess that I'm kind of scared about a date I just set up with a woman ~15 years my senior.
She reached out to me (via an online dating site, where she was enamored with my profile) and she seems cool/artsy/young-at-heart, but… I don't know. I guess meeting strangers from the internet should be a little scary. It pays to be on guard. I'm just such a vanilla guy that the very idea of an age gap is freaking me out. But people are people, right? …Right!?
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@CCC:
I confess that I'm kind of scared about a date I just set up with a woman ~15 years my senior.
She reached out to me (via an online dating site, where she was enamored with my profile) and she seems cool/artsy/young-at-heart, but… I don't know. I guess meeting strangers from the internet should be a little scary. It pays to be on guard. I'm just such a vanilla guy that the very idea of an age gap is freaking me out. But people are people, right? …Right!?
Worst case, it's just a few hours wasted.Age is not that special thing, unless it's 60 years old with 20 years old. All that matters is an age of soul/personality.
And about meeting, it's nothing to worry about, max she will turn out to be serial killer/maniac who hunts for attractive guys. Nothing else. Or thief. Nah my imagination doesn't go further. But I think meeting someone you know from internet is always a risk, but why not take it? You are interested and it may turn out really well :happy:
Good luck btw.
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Carmilla, you're a sunshine.
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CCC stands for Caught Cougar Cub
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I've been sarcastic about your post on CCC's dating dilemma.
I thought that too. Still thank you xD
Though in a deep part of my mind, at first I've considered possibility of any forum member I know being maniac xD
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And about meeting, it's nothing to worry about, max she will turn out to be serial killer/maniac who hunts for attractive guys. Nothing else. Or thief.
Right, well, you guys will know what happened to me, then, if I go missing in about a week from now.
@Monkey:
CCC stands for Caught Cougar Cub
Haha yeah I guess :P
Sitcoms tell me that I should be both excited about the prospect of meeting someone with "experience" while at the same time ashamed and self-conscious about stepping outside my prescribed age demographic.
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My partner is twice my age and we met through the internet. 8 months going now. Long distance and all. But hey, it's not impossible. I dunno i am never really afraid of meeting up people from the internet. Always have a little and major gathering from all sorts of internet forums (regional gathering of course) and whatnot. For online dating itself, had several. But they never turned out really bad. Awkward maybe, but mostly fun cause we communicate with them for quite awhile before d day so we have our preconceived style of communication.
Personal opinion, i found random pickups at clubs are scarier than online dating.
Then again, am gay. So maybe there are several different rules for all yall str8 beings
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My partner is twice my age and we met through the internet. 8 months going now. Long distance and all. But hey, it's not impossible. I dunno i am never really afraid of meeting up people from the internet. Always have a little and major gathering from all sorts of internet forums (regional gathering of course) and whatnot. For online dating itself, had several. But they never turned out really bad. Awkward maybe, but mostly fun cause we communicate with them for quite awhile before d day so we have our preconceived style of communication.
Personal opinion, i found random pickups at clubs are scarier than online dating.
Then again, am gay. So maybe there are several different rules for all yall str8 beings
I have a close male friend that I consider my Boyfriend…and Im gay too.
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@CCC:
I confess that I'm kind of scared about a date I just set up with a woman ~15 years my senior.
She reached out to me (via an online dating site, where she was enamored with my profile) and she seems cool/artsy/young-at-heart, but… I don't know. I guess meeting strangers from the internet should be a little scary. It pays to be on guard. I'm just such a vanilla guy that the very idea of an age gap is freaking me out. But people are people, right? …Right!?
Worst case, it's just a few hours wasted.Best case scenario is that your longing for a dominant woman is satisfiiiiiiiiiied.
Worst case scenarios is probably a stabbing, though. I guess that could kinda mesh with the best case scenario, though.
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Ive always been a huge pro wrestling fan.
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@Steven:
Best case scenario is that your longing for a dominant woman is satisfiiiiiiiiiied.
Goddamn you masochists are garbage.
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@Holy:
Goddamn you masochists are garbage.
Hey hey now I don't think I ever claimed to be into pain (not that there's anything wrong with that- I got your back Mr. Teach ;) )
Just that I'd go wild for a woman who wasn't afraid to take the lead :D
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I convinced Oda to kill off Ace.
No in all honesty if I had to get something off my chest it would probably be along the lines of the following: I recently found out my best friend and roommate slept with a girl I've had feelings for as long I can remember. Said friend felt the same way but things never worked out between us because of timing. She later dated one of my other good friends which killed any chance of us in the future cause she messed him up emotionally, my confession would truly be that even though I know it shouldn't I'm upset about her and the friend I mentioned first.
Not because it happened, but because she always told me she wouldn't ever do that with him–that she had no interest, and they both lied to me about it for years.
I need new friends, preferably the sort that don't constantly lie to me. (Especially because I eventually find out, always)
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@CCC:
Hey hey now I don't think I ever claimed to be into pain (not that there's anything wrong with that- I got your back Mr. Teach ;) )
Just that I'd go wild for a woman who wasn't afraid to take the lead :D
you M folk sicken me and I want to grind you under my fuckin heel so i dont have to look at you
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@Holy:
you M folk sicken me and I want to grind you under my fuckin heel so i dont have to look at you
Don't get him too excited now Holy.
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@Holy:
you M folk sicken me and I want to grind you under my fuckin heel so i dont have to look at you
cum at me holy, cum at me bro
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Cant wait till valentines day me and my gf are going to have sex for the whole day. I even took that day off from my job
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I'm really amazed and impressed by all of you who have successfully dated someone online. And props to the folks who actually hook up/get married. I just can't do it. I've been approached times that are innumerable, and I just can't feel it. I just can't connect. Though, I think they all found a way to put me off so in the end, maybe that isn't saying much.
I hate that I find pretty much every guy that tries to approach me disgusting and/or insufferable. Don't objectify me, don't immediately tell me you want to have sex with me, don't insult any facet of my appearance along with a compliment. Is that too much to ask? sobs in lonely corner
Yeah it's always going to be me a bit, but I really don't think someone should leave you with "uncomfortable", as the first impression when they start to make it known they possibly want to date you. I'm sitting at the point right now where I don't really give a shit about being single, I just want to get to NJ and be left alone along the way.
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Don't objectify me, don't immediately tell me you want to have sex with me, don't insult any facet of my appearance along with a compliment. Is that too much to ask?
No, it's not.
I'm sitting at the point right now where I don't really give a shit about being single, I just want to get to NJ and be left alone along the way.
That might be good for you. :)
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I'm not going to actively seek to see anyone right now, and I've discovered I don't want anyone to ask me out either. Just no, go away. I have to be an adult, so I have to work and pay bills, and when I'm not doing that I either want to play games or hang out with friends when there's a small moment of free time that everyone is available.
I can't wait to get out of Texas. It's going to be so awesome. I just hope I can get into hospital pharmacy before or after I move up there, I really can't stand retail XP
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I'm so sick of unsuccessful little weeners who blame all their actions and mistakes on everyone else but themselves. Yeah, take the easy way out of just being angry and whiny instead of just listening to advice and follow it through. I just want to get as far away as possible from them. I don't want them to drag me down.
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I'm really amazed and impressed by all of you who have successfully dated someone online. And props to the folks who actually hook up/get married. I just can't do it. I've been approached times that are innumerable, and I just can't feel it. I just can't connect. Though, I think they all found a way to put me off so in the end, maybe that isn't saying much.
I hate that I find pretty much every guy that tries to approach me disgusting and/or insufferable. Don't objectify me, don't immediately tell me you want to have sex with me, don't insult any facet of my appearance along with a compliment. Is that too much to ask? sobs in lonely corner
Yeah it's always going to be me a bit, but I really don't think someone should leave you with "uncomfortable", as the first impression when they start to make it known they possibly want to date you. I'm sitting at the point right now where I don't really give a shit about being single, I just want to get to NJ and be left alone along the way.
Haha don't think too much! I think there's a tendency to focus on success cases instead of the many difficulties involved in these relationships, so it may not be what it usually seems.