[hide]@Lord:
1. ok, that makes sense.
2. the graves weren't marked, right? couldn't someone dig up a body by accident?
3. those aren't pre-islamic though, could you tell me witch ones you mean maybe i missed them.
also your link says:Also seems infanticide was a problem in a few tribes and islam stoped it, but that wasn't really revolutionary and doesn't change that islam is deeply misogynistic.
2. I guess graves can be dug up by accident, but if they were, and I'm sure regular adult graves were dug into at some point in across the region, how much analysis is going to go into identifying the bones afterwards? If it was Saudi finding bones they'd probably stop digging or just not report it to the public. If we're talking Meccan tribes that did this practice, then the unwillingness of Saudis to actually identify bones in graves is a legitimate problem, because there wouldn't be enough information published about this.
3. Yeah, the poems near the beginning that are apparently pre-Islamic don't say infanticide, but honestly how much evidence will you need to conclude that this was a common enough practice in Arabia? At the beginning of this discussion you started off with the opinion that it didn't exist, now you're saying it did exist but it was exaggerated?
Your point is that you think that Muhammad wrote about this in like 2-3 verses in the Quran to exaggerate the pagan tribes' mistreatment of women, am I right? But last time I checked, the Muslims never used this issue as the driving reason to meet the pagan tribes in battle. It was just a practice that was abolished in Islam, and no one made a fuss about it until a few people mentioned they did it in past or they saved babies in past.
If it were such a big issue of slander, then of the many hadiths that record the verbal accounts of the Quraysh's criticism of Muhammad (and their criticism was harsh in the hadiths), they would have mentioned "You are slandering us about killing our female babies!" And that never happened, because they knew it was an issue in their society. [/hide]
Also I just want to say, Gaimon, is that I appreciate that we have kept our discussion civil. I've actually learned a lot from this discussion and I've never debated about these issues before, so it's given me a good chance to flex my brain muscles and recall all this knowledge which is stored somewhere in the back of my mind, which I've been in need of lately.