As much as I follow the preachings of Jesus, the fact that he was a martyr bothers me, even more, the symbol used in the churches (crucified Jesus) makes me uncomfortable, I believe he was a great man, now, to praise Jesus' suffering? It just gives me a dramatic image of the religion.
I remember one day, I was in a church, and in it, instead of the sculpture of Jesus being crucified, they had the sculpture of Jesus coming out of the cross and going to heaven, this sculpture gave me a message of comfort because I know he suffered and died for us, but now I know that the his suffering was not the end.
The representation of suffering was precisely the way how it started getting many people to follow the religion. Christianity was one of the few religions during the olden times that talked about an afterlife and how the sufferings now could save the soul when it reaches the afterlife. The suffering appealed to masses especially the ones who were present in the lower rungs of a society's hierarchy. Christianity found its way to the slaves and other ignored members of the society who incidentally ended up being a sizeable chunk of the population. The symbol of suffering and repentance of sins were something new those days and entirely relatable. Jesus was like the Karl Marx of religion.
Some of the teachings don't make sense now that the living standards have increased exponentially as compared to the days of slavery etc. Some of the teachings would make more sense if the perspective is altered to suit someone living at that era