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Alright Darth, I'll take a crack at it. You are slightly wrong. I think most of us can agree that Homing is naive. He has the best intentions, but he didn't fully understand the world he was in. He wanted the best for his family, which I think is the key thing you are missing. You complained that most of APforums doesn't understand life, but neither do you, because it seems you are missing the logistics of one thing: parenting. You complain that you dislike Homing because he made the decision for his family. No shit. That's what a dad does. Mamaflamingo decided that he was right and went with her. Don't you think if she didn't agree with his decision that she would have stayed, probably with the children? Parents make decisions for their children. My name is not Goku, because that's probably the name I would have picked for myself at the time. But my parents knew what was better for me.
Homing had the best intentions. He thought that what the CD's were doing was wrong and decided to leave with his family. We don't know if he ever tried to counteract some of their more deplorable actions. We don't have enough information to speculate. It's not like he downgraded their lifestyle either, unless you count all of the awful benefits of being a CD. He took a lot of treasure with them. I'd say enough to support them for the foreseeable future. The only thing he didn't anticipate is his son's loud mouth. Hopefully, Homing tried to teach Doffy why Doffy was wrong, and why the CD's were wrong, but again I don't think we have enough information to make a claim either way.
Again, Homing was naive. It is perfectly reasonable to dislike him because of it. But he isn't an asshole or a monster on par with the CDs.
Never said he was, btw. Thus proving my argument about you guys not bloody reading. I dislike him precisely because of that naivity, and the fact that he had obvious counter-measures to it.
Here's a thing about parenting: IF, as you say, Homing made the decision because of wanting to raise his children in better enviroment then Mariejois, which would be a reasonable explanation for his actions, and if Homing, as he says, always considered himself human…
Why didn't he left the day Doffy was born?