@Femme:
Random annoyance: when everyone you know, talk to, or see at work are either pregnant or a parent.
Why is this annoying? Every conversation you have ends on "lol, you think you got troubles? I've got 3 kids." note.
I might be like "agh I had a migraine and couldn't sleep all night!"
Parent goes: "Haha, I can't remember the last time I had proper sleep, hahahaha"
One time I posted on Facebook:
"Today I learned that packing for a trip is physically And mentally exhausting!"
Parent replies: "Lol, try packing for 6 people over 3 continents!"
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This is me. I love babies and little children and love being around them. I absolutely detest being around young/newer parents. Usually your friends' parents have been around the block that they're cool with whatever, but parents of small children :/
No I don't want to hear about your misery from your voluntary choice to reproduce, and you definitely do NOT have a greater and more special opinion just because you pushed forth a child from your loins.
I really don't get the uppity attitudes and the sudden snootiness a lot of new moms get. Once the kid hits 7-8 it usually goes away, but before that, ugh. I don't know what I'll be like whenever I have kids, but I hope that I try to stay as normal as possible. When you're out with friends, your friends that you're not friends with because of children, that is not the time to talk about your kids UNLESS its prompted by the other individual. Small notes here and there are ok, but there's a lot of TMI shit that is not ok.
I honestly just really hate when your friend because some obsessed with parenthood thats all they can talk about and you drift away. I do NOT want to be that person, or lose myself in motherhood and lose all of my friends because of it. I don't necessarily want to be friends with other mothers unless they're super cool… if I can't stand these people now, I REALLY don't want to be jacking with them when I have my own kids. Get away from me XP
Oh also as a follow up to the mother and the kapvay incident: Apparently she IS a nurse.
She needs to be fired, stat. You do not serve in a position of treating other patients if you have no fucking clue what kind of drug is in an actual medication. Your job is giving medication to people, someone that incompetent does NOT need to be in that position.