@valiantt:
Dreams….ahhh...such a silly notion when reality hits and the drudgery of work and social life starts to take its toll. Just know, there's always going to be someone better than you, or the possibility you will never achieve it and you only wasted your time. That's reality and I relish its oppressiveness.
First of all, let this latecomer apologize for digging this up when the topic has passed, but I believe that it is such a universal problem that it becomes relevant whenever it is discussed.
To be sure, I don't have a good grasp of what the discussion was about, but this particular comment piqued my interest, and I am pretty sure it is of interest to many as well. Maybe it is meant to be a joke, and I am being overly and unnecessarily serious, but I don't know how to read the air and am never good at etiquette, so here I go.
What I'm trying to say may not be unique, regardless, I believe that dream is not such a silly notion. The drudgery of work and social sure are intimidating and daunting, and they eat off your energy a lot. But that doesn't mean we have no time left to pursue your dream. Not when we have enough free time to surf the Internet, casually ridicule others for making bad posts in a message board.
Life throws a lot of shit at us, bad shit, good shit, horrible shit, wonderful shit, or just random shit, but it is up to us to make the best of whatever thrown at us.
Certainly, there's always going to be someone better than us, but the problem is not so much about how much we are gifted, but more about what we make of the gift given to us. It's not so much about being better than someone else, more about becoming better than ourselves of yesterday. It's not so much about struggling with others, with the system, with the world, with life, but more about struggling with ourselves, our own laziness, stagnancy, procrastination, insecurity, weak-willed-ness, excuse-making, negativity, vanity, pretension, and whatnot. And last but not least, it's not so much about what we dream, but more about how fiercely we dream.
I believe that if our dreams come from our innermost passions, our most authentic, genuine desires, and not just from a superficial interest in trends and fashion, in not losing face to our friends and other people, then no matter how shitty the situation, we will nonetheless have the motivation and strength to deal with it. My life has its fair share of shit, but I refuse to to let it put me down, and especially, I refuse to be daunted by the smug bastards, who look down from above and mutter: "Give it up! The likes of you will never make it", and the cynics, who giggle from the sidewalk of life and rave: "It's all futile and pointless! There is no meaning to your life, your struggle!". I will pay them no heed and keep walking.
This may sound cliched as shit, the sort of banal shit we see everyday in Facebook or some random motivational site, but sometimes we just need to stop sneering at others and move forward if we want to get somewhere. Make each small step forward each day, and we will be surprised at how far we can go. We won't know our limit unless we try hard until the last day, and by then, even if we fail, we can at least be proud and say: "I have walked my path to the end of my ability, and see the best of myself!". Time pursuing a dream is never time wasted, for pursuing is a great joy in of of itself, and if you are lucky, you will have someone else holding your hand and walking besides you along that path.
Just sharing my thoughts on the matter. Hopefully I am not bothering you like a pretentious piece of shit. Good luck to all of you! ^__^
@Epoida:
Perhaps I could be a young, aspiring mangaka trying to find out the purpose of her life, making friends along the way. And who also loves to eat dango. :)
All the best luck to you, my friend. ^.^