@Satsuki:
You've never gotten a death threat, but you've never been hated on? Ever? If so then you're extremely lucky. Most trans people I know have suffered hurtful teasing at the bare minimum.
I have been hated on, but those people never ever said they kill me. And I met many that had the same type of things, but never death threats or being attacked. And it didn't matter if it was conservative or liberal, I had people of all political beliefs be transphobic. Even when I first transitioned, I was not even allowed to use the female bathroom, it took me two years to finally win that fight. People wanting to cancel/hate me for being transgender, but never once these people threaten to kill me or even attack me for who I am.
I do know things are way better now compared to when I first started HRT in 2012. People seem to be more accepting, but there is still some that don't. I think things are slowly improving, so worrying in 2021 about this kind of stuff is a bit irrational especially with how people are more approving and educated. I'm always here to educate ones that don't understand as well. The more people are educated, the more people be accepting.
I know some do experience that, which I'm not denying, but Demon Rin said "us" which in her words was all trans people, but that isn't true. She's the first I know honestly that thinks people are out to kill her for being transgender. And it's irrational to me, though I do have my own irrational fears too, but I recongize them even if it is hard to get over them. I just wanted to help her because frankly I am worried about her mental health and I don't want her to hurt herself, but I came off all wrong in that approach AKA too strongly. Communication isn't my strong suit, but I am working on it. I hope this makes all sense from where I'm coming from at least.
Also, if you plan to live in Japan, prepare to tiptoe around being trans. Japan has it's own homosexual culture and history (kabuki, anyone?), but to be out-and-out LGBTQ is still very frowned upon. It's like, people will happily read yaoi/yuri or go to a gay/drag club, but pride parades are extremely rare. The only one I can think of is in Tokyo. Things are slowly changing, but it's still considered better to uphold a traditional society.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_culture_in_Tokyo
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_culture_in_Japan
I do know that being open in LGBT isn't the same as it is here. But I'm not that open like some others are. I only tell good or close friends in real life, though online I'm a bit more open like on here, and if anyone harasses me for being trans I can block or ignore them. Though it's not really a topic I talk about unless it is about transgender topics. I don't really like to tell complete strangers about my gender identity, I want them to assume I'm female and leave it at that. There's more to me than being trans like my likes, hobbies, etc.
As for Japan, I'm not moving there for LGBT rights. I plan to move there for other reasons like culture, having a low crime rate, caring about the planet, and so on.
Speaking of LGBT rights in Japan, my closest friend/companion showed me this article a while ago (She's from Japan but lives in the United States now):
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/03/17/world/asia/japan-gay-marriage.html/
[If you can't access it, try to look at it in incognito mode and you can check the article out.]
So, it is progress for at least same-sex marriage in Japan.
Overall, I don't really make my trans identity as my own culture or what not. To me it's just the same as a cisgender person being male or female. I don't want to be treated special because I'm trans, I just want to be treated as a human being.