I have a sexbook somewhere, that also says that butt sex is.. not good without condom, can't find it though.. I normally hide t away from my family, but now I don't remeber wehre I hide it.. o.o
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I've NEVER had sex and NEVER will why?
1. I think it's gross (well I'm 13 1/2 so not like I'd be intrested at this age)
2. I don't want to risk my life with that
3. I would'nt be caught dead buying condoms HECK NO!I can't belive I wrote this on a forum o.O; checks Temp.
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now never is a storng word. and besides sex doesnt just have to be used for plesure ( tho mostly it is lol).
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@Zolo's:
I've NEVER had sex and NEVER will why?
1. I think it's gross (well I'm 13 1/2 so not like I'd be intrested at this age)
2. I don't want to risk my life with that
3. I would'nt be caught dead buying condoms HECK NO!Oh, believe me, you'll change your mind about that when you get older. ^_^ Just remember in the future, sex is best with love and committment. But I think you have a healthy attitude for your age, there's no need to be thinking of having sex when you're only 13.
Heh…funny how people start finding sex interesting at different ages. For me, I stopped thinking it was "gross" when I was 11. <_<
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Oh, believe me, you'll change your mind about that when you get older. ^_^ Just remember in the future, sex is best with love and committment. But I think you have a healthy attitude for your age, there's no need to be thinking of having sex when you're only 13.
Heh…funny how people start finding sex interesting at different ages. For me, I stopped thinking it was "gross" when I was 11. <_<
Yeah I somehow have a feeling I'll change my mind but for now I don't care much I got a long way to go before making that desision^^
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Oh, believe me, you'll change your mind about that when you get older. ^_^ Just remember in the future, sex is best with love and committment. But I think you have a healthy attitude for your age, there's no need to be thinking of having sex when you're only 13.
Heh…funny how people start finding sex interesting at different ages. For me, I stopped thinking it was "gross" when I was 11. <_<
hahaha same here and im only 12 haaha
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Oh, believe me, you'll change your mind about that when you get older. ^_^ Just remember in the future, sex is best with love and committment. But I think you have a healthy attitude for your age, there's no need to be thinking of having sex when you're only 13.
Heh…funny how people start finding sex interesting at different ages. For me, I stopped thinking it was "gross" when I was 11. <_<
Stopped being gross to me when I was….3. Dunno what that says....
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@Zolo's:
Yeah I somehow have a feeling I'll change my mind but for now I don't care much I got a long way to go before making that desision^^
That's true. Wait as long as possible, I say. XD
Stopped being gross to me when I was….3. Dunno what that says....
Wow…I didn't even know about sex until I was about 8 or something.
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That's true. Wait as long as possible, I say. XD
Wow…I didn't even know about sex until I was about 8 or something.
I don't see how some of you ppl arn't even 20 yet and have had sex O.o' thats… how should I put this well for me thats like not normal shpuld'nt you waittill your married?!
I can't even remeber when I found out about sex XD
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@Zolo's:
I don't see how some of you ppl arn't even 20 yet and have had sex O.o' thats… how should I put this well for me thats like not normal shpuld'nt you waittill your married?!
I think it's ideal to wait for marriage. I can't force that onto anyone else. As for being normal, it's sort of a sad fact, I guess, that a lot of people lose their virginity in their teen years. I think that's really the worst time, considering that most teenagers are not very mature and emotionally unstable. No, not all are, but a lot are. I know, I've lived through all my teen years (and most of my 20's) already. XD
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I think it's ideal to wait for marriage. I can't force that onto anyone else. As for being normal, it's sort of a sad fact, I guess, that a lot of people lose their virginity in their teen years. I think that's really the worst time, considering that most teenagers are not very mature and emotionally unstable. No, not all are, but a lot are. I know, I've lived through all my teen years (and most of my 20's) already. XD
Now that were on that topic umm I've been wondering wha tis NAmi doing to Usopp in your sigg and what dose she mean by " And this time I'll pay with my BO-DY"?!
well I don't know about some ppl but I'm waitting till I'm an adult O.o;
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Now that were on that topic umm I've been wondering wha tis NAmi doing to Usopp in your sigg and what dose she mean by " And this time I'll pay with my BO-DY"?!
Oh..lol. :laugh:
Don't take that pic seriously, I took it from a doujinshi, and I put that dialogue in there myself. "I'll pay you with my body" was originally said by Bellemere to Genzo jokingly when he was angry at Nami for taking a book. Nami repeated it later on, so I just continued the joke. As for what it means, well, I think you know what it means, or you wouldn't be be asking in this topic. Nami owes Usopp big time for building AND upgrading her clima-tact, sheesh.well I don't know about some ppl but I'm waitting till I'm an adult O.o;
Good, that's very wise of you. Don't give into peer pressure.
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Considering I have no intention of Mairrage…....when should I wait to?
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You poor committment-fearing soul. You deserve no nookie.
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Hmmm, its not so much the fear as the whatever.
Most people think "One day when I'm married.."
I don't really PLAN on it. If the right person comes up though, then sure.
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Well, actually, I don't plan on being married either. I don't even look forward to it. But same as you, if I find the right person, I will…and I think I most likely will.
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OMG its been awhile since I've been here. XD
As for Mairrage I am kinda really looking forward to it even though I'm only 19. But its not on my "to do list" at the moment. I'm just going to keep dating and eventually I will find true love.
Mairrage shouldn't be something to be afraid of, if you find someone you really love then mairrage should be like eating candy! Sweet and delicious.
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OMG its been awhile since I've been here. XD
As for Mairrage I am kinda really looking forward to it even though I'm only 19. But its not on my "to do list" at the moment. I'm just going to keep dating and eventually I will find true love.
Mairrage shouldn't be something to be afraid of, if you find someone you really love then mairrage should be like eating candy! Sweet and delicious.
I completely agree. Its something I am really looking forward to one day… of course I have a sugar-coated version of my ideal life in 10 years. And plus, after I get married, THEN I'll feel comfortable having sex. So the thread topic ties in here, too.
Things will be good then.
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Well, I remember someone once said that people think marriage is a box full of goodies, but in reality it's an empty box, and your marriage is everything you put into the box. Something like that. I think marriage is a great thing. But it's hard, and it won't make life better by default. I think so many marriages break up because people just aren't willing to keep working to keep the fire alive, and to work out the problems they have. It takes dedication as well as a lot of humbling and swallowing of pride. I probably already said that somewhere in the beginning of the thread.
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Well, I remember someone once said that people think marriage is a box full of goodies, but in reality it's an empty box, and your marriage is everything you put into the box.
Thats exactly it. And most people looks past things like that, expecting everything to fall into their laps with no effort.
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Well, I remember someone once said that people think marriage is a box full of goodies, but in reality it's an empty box, and your marriage is everything you put into the box. Something like that. I think marriage is a great thing. But it's hard, and it won't make life better by default. I think so many marriages break up because people just aren't willing to keep working to keep the fire alive, and to work out the problems they have. It takes dedication as well as a lot of humbling and swallowing of pride. I probably already said that somewhere in the beginning of the thread.
No thats new. Infact thats a pretty good saying.
I believe that for a merrage to work you have to be very open with everything… almost. I've seen relationships that have gone down the hole because both people wern't willing to share their problems and just had them bottle up inside to the point of the break up.
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ASEXUALITY: It's not just for amoebas anymore!
If I ever got married, it would probably be solely for insurance purposes. HOW'S THAT FOR ROMANCE.
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ASEXUALITY: It's not just for amoebas anymore!
If I ever got married, it would probably be solely for insurance purposes. HOW'S THAT FOR ROMANCE.
LOL dude you should just get a quikie marrige in vegasXD
As for me I dont think you should wait intill your married, I mean Im not saying that you should do it on the first date or anything or just pick someone up at a bar but if they love eachother and they take the right precautions, they should be allowed to do the deed. Wise words from a 14 year old=)
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Wise words from a 14 year old
That's sort of like an oxymoron. XD
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whats so nasty about butt sex ?
i gotta be pretty de-sensitzed cause i dont see whats so gross about anal,The nasty part is that they pretend to be "virgins" to their husbands afterwards, while they've gotten with 8 guys already or something.
About the waiting for marriage thing. As a girl I think that's not too shabby, but as a guy I dunno lol.. It kinda depends on my mood. Sometimes I feel like going for a long term thing (like with the girl I talked about somewhere else, because she already said she wanted to carry my babies and stuff like that, that tends trigger those kinds of thoughts) but sometimes I also just feel like trying to get sex from pretty much any goodlooking gal I meet lol. See how quick you can get them on their backs or something. Then I'll go all I-don't-care playboy on them, and strangely women seem to fall for that a lot easier than when I'm actually serious.. it's crazy.. I hope I'm not offending any women here, but pretty much every guy I know is like that. The only limiting factor is whether they "can"..
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Yeah, I know a lot of guys are like that. I dated one once too. But amazingly there's a lot of guys really aren't like that. Being a spiritual person seeking the same, and waiting for marriage, weeds out such people. In fact, the quality of the people I have dated went up considerably once I started being more choosy.
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@jackvance:
The nasty part is that they pretend to be "virgins" to their husbands afterwards, while they've gotten with 8 guys already or something.
About the waiting for marriage thing. As a girl I think that's not too shabby, but as a guy I dunno lol.. It kinda depends on my mood. Sometimes I feel like going for a long term thing (like with the girl I talked about somewhere else, because she already said she wanted to carry my babies and stuff like that, that tends trigger those kinds of thoughts) but sometimes I also just feel like trying to get sex from pretty much any goodlooking gal I meet lol. See how quick you can get them on their backs or something. Then I'll go all I-don't-care playboy on them, and strangely women seem to fall for that a lot easier than when I'm actually serious.. it's crazy.. I hope I'm not offending any women here, but pretty much every guy I know is like that. The only limiting factor is whether they "can"..
That sounds like my friend, who thinks he can get any woman (even brags about having a gay guy hitting on him).
But what you said kinda reminded me of my friends quote…
"treat em like dirt and they stick to you like glue". I know it sounds wrong but I've had it to where I would have no interest in a girl and they just keep comming back to me, and finally I would actually care and then they would leave.
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That sounds like my friend, who thinks he can get any woman (even brags about having a gay guy hitting on him).
Heh, I didn't want to sound arrogant here, it's just how I look at these kinds of things. I thought most guys did actually.. atleast from my friends.
"treat em like dirt and they stick to you like glue". I know it sounds wrong but I've had it to where I would have no interest in a girl and they just keep comming back to me, and finally I would actually care and then they would leave.
It's pretty much a fact that women like jerks. Ofcourse you have to be nice too. It's subtle. I have an asshole side to me too, or atleast that's what my friends tell me lol. Here's a snippet from a conversation I had with a girl yesterday:
me (telling a story)
her (interrupts me with a question)
me: "Shut up"
her: "..but I'm really excited to hear the rest"
me: "Well you'll hear it faster if you stop interrupting me. So just be quiet and listen now"
her: "ok ok"
(all said with a half smile so as to not be too much of a jerk)They don't even get mad about that kinda stuff. If it's your style to be like that it'll only excite them more lol..
Ofcourse if you're just gonna be an asshole for the heck of it they'll despise you.
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Meh, women who like jerks generally either are bitches themselves or they have self-esteem issues. What women really don't like are wish-washy guys that let people walk all over them.
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I heard at a party at a nearby college, a guy wore a sign that said "I'm a virgin, help" and like 20 girls lined up.
So there's hope yet (I hope).
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lol XD How do they know he was telling the truth?
Don't be giving anyone any ideas now… -
:0 I'm gonna test that :D
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:0 I'm gonna test that :D
Haha, I can see you in front of me doing just that. XD That would be you Solid to do that. :p
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@jackvance:
Ofcourse if you're just gonna be an asshole for the heck of it they'll despise you.
Very true. I have an ex who turned into a total jerk to me, not kidding around at all… calling me names, degrading, etc. Thats when I got rid of him. There is a fine line that should not be crossed.
:0 I'm gonna test that :D
Solid, tell us how it works out for ya! :laugh:
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Very true. I have an ex who turned into a total jerk to me, not kidding around at all… calling me names, degrading, etc. Thats when I got rid of him. There is a fine line that should not be crossed.
Been there twice. :laugh: It's a matter of showing true colors. Some guys have a hard exterior but they're really sweet at heart. Some guys put on a façade of being a nice guy when they're really assholes.
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Been there twice. :laugh: It's a matter of showing true colors. Some guys have a hard exterior but they're really sweet at heart. Some guys put on a façade of being a nice guy when they're really assholes.
This is true of women too, actually.Yeah, unfortunately it took me nearly two years to get it through my head. And I can only imagine what some guys must go through with girls like that…. scary!
Just goes to show that you shouldn't judge a book by its cover.
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I heard at a party at a nearby college, a guy wore a sign that said "I'm a virgin, help" and like 20 girls lined up.
So there's hope yet (I hope).
They lined up to laugh at him probably.
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Nope, he got some. There's plenty of girls who are just interested in a one night stand.
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Yep bars are full of them. But this story is an urban myth. If this was true then everyone'd be running around with that t-shirt or whatever it was.
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i dont doubt that it could work of course given that its a fairly attractive guy,
i even know a guy for whom something similar like that has work for,
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hahaha thats so funny. im a virgin help. hahah.
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hahaha thats so funny. im a virgin help. hahah.
XD Warp this isn't the place! Wait till you get to a bar with a sign that says that your a virgin!
So from what I read you can't be too nice but at the same time you can't be an ass… so where's the middle ground on all of this. I don't want to be on a date tossing a coin over the matter of being nice or being mean.
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@jackvance:
It's pretty much a fact that women like jerks…
Really? Never heard that one before… :wacko:
@jackvance:
If it's your style to be like that it'll only excite them more lol..
Sweeping generalizations, much?
So from what I read you can't be too nice but at the same time you can't be an ass… so where's the middle ground on all of this. I don't want to be on a date tossing a coin over the matter of being nice or being mean.
Whatever happened to the just-be-yourself role model? Anyway, I don't remember any girl saying they love being with a partial jerk/partial sweetie. I mean, unless they were bipolar or something…
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XD Warp this isn't the place! Wait till you get to a bar with a sign that says that your a virgin!
So from what I read you can't be too nice but at the same time you can't be an ass… so where's the middle ground on all of this. I don't want to be on a date tossing a coin over the matter of being nice or being mean.
I'm no expert, but it's just something I have noticed over time. If you haven't, then please just forget about it. Because if you're gonna be mean just for the heck of being mean.. you'll end up with nothing. If you're in doubt then just be nice.. it's the safest way to go. Maybe you won't get the girl but atleast you won't make enemies lol..
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Really? Never heard that one before… :wacko:
Sweeping generalizations, much?
Whatever happened to the just-be-yourself role model? Anyway, I don't remember any girl saying they love being with a partial jerk/partial sweetie. I mean, unless they were bipolar or something...
Maybe thats my problem, I've been dating crazy people.
@jackvance:
If you're in doubt then just be nice.. it's the safest way to go. Maybe you won't get the girl but atleast you won't make enemies lol..
Well being mean just for the sake of beging mean is always wrong. Your right though, you never know there still women out there who could use a nice guy.
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Really? Never heard that one before… :wacko:
Spend a couple weeks in my town and you'll know.
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I also just feel like trying to get sex from pretty much any goodlooking gal I meet lol. See how quick you can get them on their backs or something. Then I'll go all I-don't-care playboy on them, and strangely women seem to fall for that a lot easier than when I'm actually serious.. it's crazy.. I hope I'm not offending any women here, but pretty much every guy I know is like that. The only limiting factor is whether they "can"..
That's like, the total opposite of myself. XD I dunno, when I talk to guys, sex is usually the last thing on my mind. I'd much rather just hang out and play foosball or videogames with them. I don't look a hot guy and get turned on, it's just like, "Hey, that guy's face is pleasant to look at." And that's about it. But I don't think I'm the average girl when it comes to relationships though, so don't think that all girls are the same way. I'm just horribly unaggressive and shy when it comes to this stuff. <_<
Being female, I suppose I can't really see how guys can be so sexually driven…. most of the guys I hang around don't even look like they are, I guess. >__> It's somewhat disturbing to think about, but not all that suprising.
:0 I'm gonna test that :D
Be careful though~! If you're not that good looking and there isn't an alcohol involved, you'll come off as pathetic and desparate. xD But seriously, watch out for the STDs with that one. >>
Oh, and nice guys are awsome, seriously. I hate assholes. I simply cannot STAND them. fumes Don't ignore me when I say somthing to you beyotch, if you wanna go out with me, you'll act like it!!! whips
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Being female, I suppose I can't really see how guys can be so sexually driven…. most of the guys I hang around don't even look like they are, I guess. >__> It's somewhat disturbing to think about, but not all that suprising.
Depends on the guy. With one friend of mine it's like (from yesterday)
him: "and so I put a rose in front of her door with a poem.. but she said she just wanted to be friends snif"
me: "aaaah that sucks"
him: "but today she said I could only stay til 10:30 but she kicked me out at 11:45.."
me: "woaa that's 15 minutes more! You're making total progress man! Hang in there and she'll crack soon!"
him: "I don't think so.."
(neither do I..)but with other friends it's like (from two days ago)
him: "So I got a date with this girl. I already did her in the past, so I think it might work again. And she's living in an apartment with a female friend of hers, and I heard that they sometimes do threesomes.."
me: "no shit, you're gonna do a threesome! hahaaaa" (pats him on the back)
him: "But if you want we can make it a foursome. I'll call em up and see if we can make it a double-date"
me: "That'd be awesome. But I don't want the one you already had so I'll take the friend"
him: "yeah that's cool with me."
me: "But don't go flake on me and shit, you call me after you set it up you hear?"
him: "yeah man I will, I'll call em and then let you know"
me: "good that's cool"
(we're pigs aren't we.. but it's all in good faith lol)Oh, and nice guys are awsome, seriously. I hate assholes. I simply cannot STAND them. fumes Don't ignore me when I say somthing to you beyotch, if you wanna go out with me, you'll act like it!!! whips
That's what they all say, but in practice..