That's respectable. At least your not just looking for a one-night fling!
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r u going to stay with her for the rest of yout life or your going to meet different people. when you get married and see that you love your wife everything with her will be special but when you lose your virginity to a girl you will always remember her as the girl you lost your virginity to
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who knows we may end up getting married i dont plan ahead like that i live for the moment and right now i love my girlfriend and want to show that to her in every way that i can including sex ;)
and sure ill always will have a special place in my heart for my first but that wouldnt affect my feelings for my wife
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wolfwood, how old are you? :P Just wonderin'.
So many people that want to wait… o.O; Quite strange noone that I know in my school are any other school would have waited, I know 3 girls in my class that has lost their virgin and 1 guy..
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I will be 17 in november. ^^
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yay im as old as pepsi :)
in fact im a couple of months older than her :D
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In exactly 7 days and 7 months I'll be 15. If im lucky, it might happend during the summer. :wub: Though…. I need a girl first. :unsure:
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My birthday is the same as Zoro's, and the same as Buccaner's. :D
Everyone seems to think things like that happen in the summer.
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EDIT it can happen anytime anywhere and thats the beuty of it :D
dont worry solid youll find one you like if not this summer then there is always the next :P
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there are a lot of people who looks at this thread but not so many that post in this thread.. Only the swedes. :P I guess the others are too shy. :P
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Edited. ;D Sorry.. Started to write it and then wrote the thing about b-days instead.
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prehaps there are only the swedes that have a sex life :blink:
or they could just be like you said shy :lol:
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Hah.. Swedes are such pervs. ;P
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does that mean you admit to being a perv :P
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I'll be 19 in a few months and I've yet to find someone worth my time.
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Damn people, just have sex will ya, all this talk about "waiting for the special", sure, for girls it's ok, but dammit, you guys out there should prove that you're men! Have sex with anyone anytime!
Nah, but seriously, i guess it is kind of nice to lose it to someone you care for, me, i lost it on a toilet in a pub, barely remember it at all, maybe not all too romantic. But hey, don't really care, since im a SWEDE!!!
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Originally posted by wolfwood@May 7 2005, 10:31 PM
does that mean you admit to being a perv :P
[snapback]44076[/snapback]No. <_<
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Originally posted by AgamemnoN@May 7 2005, 03:38 PM
Nah, but seriously, i guess it is kind of nice to lose it to someone you care for, me, i lost it on a toilet on a pub, barely remember it at all, maybe not all too romantic. But hey, don't really care, since im a SWEDE!!!
[snapback]44083[/snapback]Oh.. In a bar.. that's not very nice.. :( Must been short one..
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heh heh i had a mrs. robinson experience LOL
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Originally posted by Solid+May 7 2005, 03:58 PM–>QUOTE(Solid @ May 7 2005, 03:58 PM)
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he means you have a small dick^^
no honestly i dont know what he meant still that sounds like a pretty bad experince
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Wow.. Such vulgar language. Tsk tsk tsk
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Virgin. I don't think sex should be passed around like a toy.
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i hope you ppl used protection :P
_ Originally Posted by mr.allsunday
Nice job jumping on the bandwagon there Aethos, I can only wish I was as cool as you_
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Originally posted by warp@May 7 2005, 05:34 PM
i hope you ppl used protection :P
[snapback]44160[/snapback]Agreed. You could really pass STDs like that. Then we would have more dead ppl.
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I'm a virgin, I'm only 13. :P I don't think you should wait. People in my school have done it. You should always use a condom.
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well if its a one-night-stand you should always use condom but if you like i have a girlfriend and you both dont have any STDs you dont have to,
i dont with my girl mainly cause you cant feel shit with a condom :(
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No offense to the 13/14 year olds here, but I'm kinda glad you're still virgins… I don't buy into the whole "wait till you're married" thing, but I think that sex isn't something you should throw around carelessly. I want to have sex, but with a girl that's at least of some kind of significance, not some girl I take to the movies once or twice or something. But I dunno, relationships are liek a hurricane, nothing ever happens like you plan.
I'm 18, still a virgin. There's one girl I came close to doing it with... but it didn't really work out. Complicated. i tried coming back to her and she broke my heart... so I guess that's the last of her in my life. There's no available girls for me to get in a relationship with, much less fuck. I live in a small town, so it's hard to meet good girls, so I'm kind of lonely. Le sigh.
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I haven't been since about a year ago, but I agree with Carter. If you're not going to wait until marriage, at least wait until it's someone you really like. Trust me, I'm still annoyed with myself for being intimate my last two girlfriends.
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Yeah, I have a friend who hated herself for sleeping with her ex-boyfriend and losing her virginity to him, when it turned out he was cheating on her and they broke up.
I know girls at my school who are sluts and I could probably score with, but I'd honestly rather live the rest of my life alone than to screw any of those bitches.
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Virgin, and proud of it too :P I do want to wait to have sex till I'm married, but at the same time, I do sorta think I might be a little too naive in saying that ^_^;; I guess I might do it if I met someone I felt completely ok in doing it with, but I haven't met anyone like that till now and I don't think I will anytime soon, at least not until college (with my luck especially…)
Glad to see some people do care about safe sex and all that unlike some people I know... <_<
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Originally posted by Pepsi@May 7 2005, 01:36 PM
Sex is a big part of a relationship, even if you don't want to admit it. If your partner is bad in that area, the relationship might not hold for long.
[snapback]43960[/snapback]Sex shouldn't be a big part of a relationship. If you love your partner, what they're like in bed doesn't much matter.
A good relationship is about loving the person you're with, and enjoying their company regardless. It's about being with someone you feel you could spend your life with, someone who understands you, someone you can have an argument with and still want to be together, someone you care about and who cares for you equally. Considering the sex as "a big part of a relationship" seems a little shallow to me.
Then again, maybe I'm just old-fashioned… or just old.
PS - No, I'm not a virgin. Haven't been for 14 or so years.
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well i could never deny that sex is an important part of an relationship but if you have a person whom is like what you described odds are good that you will have great sex with that person ;)
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Originally posted by wolfwood@May 7 2005, 07:11 PM
well i could never deny that sex is an important part of an relationship but if you have a person whom is like what you described odds are good that you will have great sex with that person ;)
[snapback]44238[/snapback]Everything with him is great ^_^ But to be honest, if he never wanted to have sex, I'd be fine with that too. I've never been a very sexual person though. Maybe I'm rare.. or weird. It's just kinda… well.. there. I don't think about it. There's other things I'd rather do with my time.
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It shouldn't be, but it is with teenagers. Me and my last girlfriend broke up afterwards. It's just that that kinda thing gets you to think about mistakes, and you realize all the mistakes you've made with the person, and….want to get away, I guess.
And if your first time is bad, it really, really sucks, because you can't get your virginity back, and you're even angrier about it.
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hey every ones first time is bad :P
i mean your clumsy and dont know what to do and if your a girl it hurt pretty bad ive heard,EDIT but luckly it gets a lot better :D
and konis ill guess your just rare as you put it :P
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Mine wasn't bad, but I realized that the act didn't live up to all the hype. I lost my virginity after two years of trying hard, and it was just like "Oh. I should've waited."
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you mean you knew exactly what to do and did it flawlessly ?
if thats so im impressed :Pand what do you think would have been better if you had waited ?
BTW i think the virginty is over hyped :lol:
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BTW i think the virginty is over hyped
Why?
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Originally posted by wolfwood@May 7 2005, 07:28 PM
**you mean you knew exactly what to do and did it flawlessly ?
if thats so im impressed :Pand what do you think would have been better if you had waited ?
BTW i think the virginty is over hyped :lol:
[snapback]44245[/snapback]**Yes. I'm a lazy fool, so if I go after something for two years, I mean business.
I think virginity is underrated. Everyone's always in a rush to lose it, but when you do, you realize sex isn't nearly as great as everyone makes it out to be.
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i just dont feel that strongly about it,
i dont think that my love for my future wife will be any less just cause ive had sex before marrige,
and i dont think that it would feel any better to lose it to my wife in 15 years than it felt to lose it to my current girlfriend whom i love right now,
thus i feel that keeping your virginty for your wife/husband is over hyped.
EDIT and sex is just as great as people make it out to be in fact its better especialy with my darling Anna :D
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Ahh, losing your virginity is no big thing. Finding it again, now that's pretty impressive.
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I wish I could do that. As long as my brain works, though, I'll remember I'm not a virgin. And I wouldn't feel right saying I was if I wasn't.
Originally posted by wolfwood@May 7 2005, 07:42 PM
**i just dont feel that strongly about it,i dont think that my love for my future wife will be any less just cause ive had sex before marrige,
and i dont think that it would feel any better to lose it to my wife in 15 years than it felt to lose it to my current girlfriend whom i love right now,
thus i feel that keeping your virginty for your wife/husband is over hyped.
EDIT and sex is just as great as people make it out to be in fact its better especialy with my darling Anna :D
[snapback]44249[/snapback]**It just seems more meaningful. You're lucky that you and your girlfriend care about each other. I never cared about either of the girls, and I started hating them afterwards. When you have someone you really love, you don't have to worry about being like "I'll….call you" or any of that crap.
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i suppose i am really lucky :D
ah now ive gotten all mushy and romantic so ill just have to call her and tell her that i love her :P
but then again i dont think she would love it if i woke her upp this late :lol:
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I am. I'm 17 now, couldda lost it at 14, but I'm waiting until I'm married. Anything besides sex though… :D
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I haven't been a virgin for almost exactly three years now. I remember the exact date even: it was 25 May, I had a tequila sunrise and the actual sex was one of the biggest damn mistakes I've ever made in my life (if not THE biggest). Not to say it wasn't romantic or anything (it kinda was) but… I dunno if I could really explain it without giving away something extremely private about myself.
So I had a two-year drought and since my sweet sixteen, it's been three times. :lol:
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You know, it's odd… I often hear people talking about this subject, and it always surprises me what kind of an impact it makes on people. I guess that's something that lies in more sociological reasons, but I never really considered sex as such a ''big thing''. Now, don't get me wrong on that. What I mean is, the line between sex and simple kissing/showing love was never really clear to me. To me it's always been a method of showing love to someone, not some big breaking point in life or something you do for kicks.
For me, it was... A mutual agreement, not a decision. It just happened because it felt right to do it. Otherwise, it wouldn't have happened.
Or .... something. I hope I'm making sense. If not, blame my sleepiness.
I dunno. Maybe I just got real lucky with the girl I met. At least I know I did.
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My goodness, what a personal question.
I'm 27, and not a virgin, although I wish I still was. I made a mistake of giving into a relationship many years ago. It's not like it wasn't fun, but in retrospect, it wasn't really worth it, I don't know the guy anymore, and I feel somewhat cheapened. I really do think sex should be saved for marriage. However, people have to come to that conclusion on their own.
 
