Well… I want to learn how to flirt better. I suck at flirting -.-
How to flirt
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WHAT? How a strange a topic, flirting isn't something that you just read aboot and then copy. You must go with the flow.
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WHAT? How a strange a topic, flirting isn't something that you just read aboot and then copy. You must go with the flow.
Yeah I agree, you just go with the flow, like when I was at school the girls i like it was kinda hard to flirt with them becuase your trying, but then with these girls I had in a class it was easy becuase i didn't like them.
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being able to flirt involves self confidence, and the ability to be witty at a moment's notice. Hence, I'm no good at it.
Does a person really need to know how to flirt though? If you like someone, can't you just tell them? Unless your trying to look cool. then, ya flirting could help….or it could make you look even worse.....:P
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confidence. lots of eye contact. lots of smiling.
its hard to teach people how to flirt though (ie. body language, etc), especially online.. haha..
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Flirting requires insight, once you have that it comes naturally. If you hang out with someone you like then you can joke around with them because you will know what they consider funny and what they do not. Once you get to that point, there is one technique of flirting that is quite simple.
- Bring up an old joke that made you both laugh
- S/he will smile/laugh at the good memory and sort of let their gaurd down
- Make a coming onto witty/semi strong comment about the person (I've always thought you had a beautiful smile if it's a girl/You always could make me smile if it's a guy [<- examples, don't use them because they'll sound forced, you need to say something you would say, not what I would say])
Now that's just one way of flirting, it's not necessarily the best/worst but it does tend to work, perhaps not as well as other techniques, but certainly isn't harmful unless you make too strong of a comment (you need to know what'll catch the other person off gaurd, and what will scare them, which is why insight is important)
The other technique comes with physical contact, and it depends on the two peoples personalities, which like others have said can't be taught.
For example, a really silly thing I did in high school when I was at the beach with this girl with some friends was drum on her belly, most of the people laughed, the guys were like "zomg wtf is he doing!" both because of the balls+crazyness/stupidity of it, but she liked it (not in a weird way), I was comfortable enough around her while others were around that it kinda clicked that we make good company etc.Or if you're dancing with someone you like, the way your hands touch each other is a good way to flirt, I don't suggest trying to flirt by feeling the person up though, you have to be sure of what you're doing there (I'm not even that confident), some people have limits of where they like to be held, and others are turned off when you don't hold them enough (I'm not talking rapist/perv kinda areas either, I knew a girl that didn't like anyone touching her stomach -.-)
Like I said though, it comes with insight and ussually naturally, if you force it it'll show it's forced.
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Shades of Densha Otoko here…
Most of the important things have been covered, but tread carefully...I think there's a slim line between being genuinely charming and a total ass. Just a dismissable opinion.
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You should take a look at this thread carefully. Lots of flirting tips on it.
http://www.kaizoku-fansubs.com/forum/viewtopic.php?id=3342 -
yer as wacky ever eh lorenzo?
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Hehe, It's nice to see you again Refii.How have you been?
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You should take a look at this thread carefully. Lots of flirting tips on it.
http://www.kaizoku-fansubs.com/forum/viewtopic.php?id=3342Ok that link you posted too proves my point that you're scum. Stalking a girl? Wow that soo proves that you are a true man.
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Shades of Densha Otoko here…
Most of the important things have been covered, but tread carefully...I think there's a slim line between being genuinely charming and a total ass. Just a dismissable opinion.
quite right. I like it when a guy shows me attention. Makes me feel special. A nice hand on my shoulder, or a pat on the back is always innocent. On the other hand, one of my old roomate's BF's was quite the perv. I remember he "flirtingly" patted my ass when his GF was around. Not only is that WRONG because he's got a GF, but that pissed me off that he thought he had the right to come up and do that, it was also very uncomfortable. Lets just say, we didn't stay talking to eachother very long.
slim line between being genuinely charming and a total ass
total ass=You should take a look at this thread carefully. Lots of flirting tips on it.
http://www.kaizoku-fansubs.com/forum…ic.php?id=3342 -
Okay I'm a scum, but I was not the only one who posted in my masterpiece thread. At least you've gotta give the others a hand for giving good tips, especially that Obidan fellow. As for me, my tips suck, I'll admit that, but I'm still proud of myself for creating the topic.
I would've loved to flame, but I'm in a very good mood ryt now, I got 86 on my midterm grade, and nothing seems to annoy me.
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If you're banned on that site, will you be banned on this site? I'll wait and see. What did you get banned for anyway Lorenzo? For posting that thread? Saying that stalking is okay?
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If you're banned on that site, will you be banned on this site? I'll wait and see. What did you get banned for anyway Lorenzo? For posting that thread? Saying that stalking is okay?
Answer: he asked naked pictures from a minor, and got caught.
stabinbac wrote:
Why lorenzo is banned:
Harassing moderators
Mild threats to moderators
Attempting to command moderators
Lying about having permission to do something from a moderatorAnd lastly:
Attempting to acquire naked photos of an underage member. (Yes, he actually did.)
If anyone was wondering.
proof of this incident is in this thread. (scroll down)
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If you want to Flirt. If you ask me the Base of flirting is very simple.
Charm.
The easiest way and time to show charm is at a dress party. The girl in question especially if she's a girl with class should be shown you're a gentleman early in the party usually by presenting a single rose. You must respect her and bring up appropriate conversation. current events, politics, etc, etc. Keep a happy look in your eyes. Back strait , breath easy.
(to be continued)
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I can't stand the suspense!
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Answer: he asked naked pictures from a minor, and got caught.
proof of this incident is in this thread. (scroll down)
Someone ban him.
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Well that explains a lot….
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Someone ban him.
I 110% agree with you, just how he has acted in the past various days. Making a strip club thread on a pg-13 forum and then telling a user to stalk a girl.
Of course I am not a moderator and it is up to them for the final decision.
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How about we just throw him in a dark basement with no light and the only food he has to eat is his own urine and shit.(also don't know if its approriate to say shit on this forum.)
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@Mr.:
How about we just throw him in a dark basement with no light and the only food he has to eat is his own urine and shit.(also don't know if its approriate to say shit on this forum.)
This is a shittin PG-13 forum. Shit all you like.
Anyway, back on topic:
What you said was a bit to far. Just let the mods deal with him. He'll be banned by the end of the week.
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This is a shittin PG-13 forum. Shit all you like.
Anyway, back on topic:
What you said was a bit to far. Just let the mods deal with him. He'll be banned by the end of the week.
I must agree with you Nguyen, still we have three people that want this fool banned for good. Hmm maybe we make a list of users that want him banned and then present it too the moderators.
Hell I'll start it off even.
People that want lorenzo banned off of Arlong Park:
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That's going to far man… I want him to get banned for good too but still, I don't want to look like a jackass.
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Answer: he asked naked pictures from a minor, and got caught.
proof of this incident is in this thread. (scroll down)
Holy shit… Someone, please delete all of lorenzo's posts in this topic. I don't trust his advice at all.
Thanks for the help guys... I'd like some more advice though.
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That's going to far man… I want him to get banned for good too but still, I don't want to look like a jackass.
True, but I didn't mean for it to come off like that. I figured a user petition would be a nice thing to do. Hell it works in government settings and this forum has the same workings as a government setting. Just break down the walls to see.
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Holy shit… Someone, please delete all of lorenzo's posts in this topic. I don't trust his advice at all.
Thanks for the help guys... I'd like some more advice though.
All you need to basically do is relax and don't stare at her breast or ass when talking to her. But don't just stare only at her eyes it will creep her out .
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Holy shit… Someone, please delete all of lorenzo's posts in this topic. I don't trust his advice at all.
Thanks for the help guys... I'd like some more advice though.
thank the lord, we're back on topic.
Just be nice and respectful to us. We're people too. Just give us lots of attention, and treat us special. We like that. ^_^
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Where the hell is Jackvance.
We may need to open up that relationships thread again.
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@yokaiforte:
Where the hell is Jackvance.
We may need to open up that relationships thread again.
Just what I was thinking, though I was never part of that thread I was going to search for it just now. And bump it.
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To some of you who want lorenzo banned, maybe you're being too harsh. (same with me XD) Maybe he changed his ways, hopefully he won't be some sick-fuck this time and might be actually more appropriate-like (for a sophmore in college). I say, give lorenzo a chance, if he screws up even once, I'll get the dildo and whip.
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He pointed to the advice he gave on KF….
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We'll just say he's about one strike away from getting thrown out of the ball game, how about. :P
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You guys shoulndt get mad at lorenzo thats what he wants you to do,and he enjoys it.
I love getting banned, I love pissing people off (especially the mods)
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@lxn:
You guys shoulndt get mad at lorenzo thats what he wants you to do,and he enjoys it.
True, so very very true. I just thought of him as scum though when it was reveled that he asked aboot photos of an underaged girl. In my opinion, this "boy" should be in jail. Where a "bubba" character makes him suffer.
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I’m not his brother…………but yeah…you can call it just the same……………..I’m his…..apparition sent to deliver one final message from my master lorenzo .
It’s so nice to see that all of us are gathered here to commemorate the passing of my master lorenzo.
sob And so ends the golden age of KF….sniff
sob Come my minions…let us all commemorate the passing of our once glorious master lorenzo with a song.That must rank high in the list of embarassingly gay posts I came across during the many hours I wasted browsing internet message boards. Absolutely pathetic.
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What our forum members do outside of this forum is none of our business. We welcome whoever here as long as they behave well within the forum rules. If s/he doesn't, s/he will be warned properly and will face any consequences unless s/he doesn't behave afterwards. As Carly mentioned, lorenzo has been warned already, so it's up to him if he will behave from now on on this forum.
That said, please go back to the topic, otherwise all of you are breaking forum rules :P Any further post about lorenzo's past behavior will be deleted, and you will be warned.
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How to flirt… Know what s/he likes to do, and talk about that stuff? >.> Okay, I'm not good at flirting. -
how to flirt: use a cheesy pickupline whenever appropriate.
for example, during summer nights there are usually bees outside (especially in california), especially if you have plants with flowers. when you have a girl with you or you are currently at a girl's place, "Accidentally" leave the window or the balcony door open. when she comes at you and say "should close the windows, the bees are trying to come in," you say,
"that's because you're sweet as honey."
that probably won't get you laid, but at least you'll have a good laughter afterwards from being so cheesy.
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The best way to flirt for towards somebody is to never be on the negative side. No matter how angry or how much hatred the girl feels towards you you must never show a content of hostility or anger. The girls maybe angry at you and that, but if you show that your not angry and your very nice they will think of you as a gentleman, who knows no hatred, who knows how to forgive and how to forget. And with good patience the girl might start to develop some sense of respect in you, it might be a sense of liking, but I'm sure respect is always there. Respect for your ability to forgive and forget.
Okay I've got a good flirting line that I sometimes used on girls, and I'm willing to share it to you guys out there:
lorenzo: Hey miss what's that thing on your face?
girl: ??
lorenzo: Oh, Don't bother. It's just your two lovely eyes.I've got another flirting line in my college laboratory class in nutrition.
lorenzo:hey miss who's your lab ryt now? (That means who's your lab teacher)
giril:Miss X, whattabout you.
lorenzo:You're my lab ryt now.BTW: I hope I'm not breaking any rules, I try my best to be helpful.
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… at least the posts are amusing.
Use the body posture yo. Pose abit.
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Smiling, being friendly, and doing things like holding the door open or walking her to her car are some of the best examples I can think of. It doesn't have to be anything big like buying her candy or using pick up lines. Girls have amazing intuition and can sense when guys like them. :)
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Being yourself can be good sometimes. And smiling is always a good bridge. But you should learn to be a little bit aggresive sometimes.
My techniques in flirting would be: I would go into a restaurant, chocklit shoppe, or something like that filled with girls. Then I gather all the ketchup on my table. Then the girls ask for ketchup I'll say "Can I use it for a minute? Don't worry i'll deliver it to you later." Then you go close to the girl and hand her the ketchup, as you hand her the ketchup you bring in a chair and sit close to her. Then I say "Oh sorry!" and I try to leave. When the girl says it's okay, It's a signifier that flirting with her is okay with her.Okay here are more flirting lines from me
Lorenzo speaks to a commom friend (that's a girl)
lorenzo:hey miss can I have your picture
girl:why, what do you need my picture for?
lorenzo:so I can show Santa what I wan't this ChristmasLorenzo goes and speaks to a girl that is sitting on a bench
lorenzo:Excuse me miss, but is your arm okay?
girl:why? what's happened to my arm / of course it's okay
lorenzo:I'm sorry, I thought you must've hurt yourself when you fell from heaven.Here's another old flirting line I got from my friends;
boy: are you tired?
girl: no. why do you ask?
boy: coz you've been running in my mind all day longHere's another one from me, it's kinda corny.
lorenzo: Excuse me miss do you have a band-aid?
girl: No, why?
lorenzo: I think I must've hur myself when I fell in love with you.Yeah the best way to flirt with somebody is to be fun. DOn't be too serious sometimes.
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Smiling, being friendly, and doing things like holding the door open or walking her to her car are some of the best examples I can think of. It doesn't have to be anything big like buying her candy or using pick up lines. Girls have amazing intuition and can sense when guys like them. :)
when i thought kissing them for a shitload of hours was enough! now i know why a failed so many times…
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Wow!! You've gotta have a lot of guts for being able to do that. I see some of my friends do that to girls, they say it's flirting and some of the girls like it, they even go with the flow. Those guys are geniuses I tell you, I would trade anything in the world to be like them.joke.
But I don't know…Maybe I'm not that confident about myself... -
I don't know a shit about flirting, me and girls don't make such a great mix, but I just few days ago read an article about most popular fliting methods and sweeping his/her shoulders was in top five. This would be a sign of caring about his/her looks. And that's about all I remember. Although the whole sweeping thing made me go: "oh, wait, so that's why…"
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Smiling, being friendly, and doing things like holding the door open or walking her to her car are some of the best examples I can think of. It doesn't have to be anything big like buying her candy or using pick up lines. Girls have amazing intuition and can sense when guys like them. :)
I always thought those things were just proper etiquette.
But that'd mean I'd be flirting a lot then.
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It's a little more complicated than simple etiquitte. I don't really know how to explain it any other way.
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Just go with it.
The best advice you need on everything.
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Act natural…. make them laugh :) Most girls like a guy with a good sense of humor... depending on the girl of course.
and I agree with Taboo and Zephos nod ^_^
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Tell her, "I find the most sensual part of the woman is the boobies."