@Pirate:
I know how she felt when you mentioned being "numb" and following a routine. What you need to do first is draw a line for her, you, or him. If she doesn't choose then you need to wait :/ it's really shitty to be "that guy" and word gets around quickly so don't let this linger…
Also you need to decide if you like her, or you liked what you had with her. There's always someone else out there for you, and in my honest opinion I would never date someone who has cheated on someone else before. If they cheat once, they will do it again, and it will likely be on you. I could go into detail about why this happens but whatever lol.
Thanks. :] But I love her with all that I am. She is the most amazing person I've ever met. and she taught me that I didn't have to walk this earth alone and single for ever. and I want her back more than ever now. ridiculous right? welp, I don't care. lol. I love both, what we had and her as a person. I can tell she isn't satisfied. So, I'm going to keep at it.
@Uncle:
@Kaze: You might not want to hear this but you can do better. I know you're confused right now about what you should do and you have strong feelings for this girl and all but dude, she left you, and after only five months together with you. And as someone that's been down this road before I can say, in confidence, that she would do it again.
If she would go so far as to break up with you to protect her own interests than you should do yourself a favor and protect yours. If it's meant to be, she'll come back to you. If not, it just means you deserve better. You deserve the loyalty. It's not even a question.
Sigh I know I know. :/ and I've heard it PLENTY of times now. But I'm juust checking to see if she still want something. I'm going to basically say, " look.. It's clear you don't know what you want because of what happened, so here's your choice. you either work things out with me, or you be with him and I'm out of your life. I can't just sit and watch you fall in love with someone else."
@Smudger:
Kaze you sound pussywhipped. Do yourself a favor and friendzone her before you get used and end up hurt and headfucked from it all, or moreso than you might feel right now.
I really want to link you this 'how I met your mother episode' that pretty much sums up what I'm trying to say. Lol
But seriously now boy think about the lack of respect she's been showing you by doing what she's done and what she is doing to you currently. She's not stupid and knows fully well she's keeping you on the hook as the fallback guy. It might seem sweet but can you ever have a future with someone like this when you won't have any trust in her? It's tough but learn from it and move on. Maybe someday she will genuinely grow up and become an option for you again. But for now let it go, treasure what you had but look for something better.
Lets hope for the best I guess. :x
@lelandlancaster:
Dump her, move on, it'll hurt but things will get better. That kind of drama isn't worth it and you deserve someone who can make up their fucking mind whether they want you or not.
Nice. short and sweet and right to the point.
Thank you all for your opinions and Support. ^_^ I'll give you all an update on what happens, it's gonna go down in about a week or so, that's probably when we'll meet again.