Anyone have advice for finding love? I don't care about sex at all, to be honest, but I'd like to just be in a romantic relationship (I'm a lame-ass :lol: ).
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Don't expect much of a relationship if you're pursuing it for…The sake of being in a relationship.
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I don't want to be in one just to say I have a gf. That's just shallow <_< .
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you…. could say "jag är kÃ¥t" to a swede... :D
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nah that just works for a one-night-stand :P
and thats not what hes looking for.
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Originally posted by Solid@May 11 2005, 04:48 PM
you…. could say "jag är kÃ¥t" to a swede... :D
[snapback]47193[/snapback]Seriously, stop telling everyone that! :D
You're giving us a bad reputation.And im not very good with realtionship, but my advice would be to get to and know a girl, and take it slow and easy with her. But as i said, im no expert. :P
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well…feeling such as love juz comes and go...you can't juz force it ya know ^^
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You see a girl you like, make eye contact, smile, talk to her. Take a real interest in her opinions and hobbies, uhm… and most of all, be sweet and polite.
It always worked for me.
That's the basics, Solar. Sorry, I'd do better. But I have the worst hangover in history, and I'm totally going crazy.
However, TheLousy just answered the question for you better than I did!
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well it all depends on what u wanna have either quick relation or long relation. If its long, follow my advice, it will come 2 ya. It juz hit ya without even u realising it till your about to either lose her or about to lose her. Quick relation? Head over to your nearest pub/disco/bar/placesyoucanfindlotsofgals and start hinting to them all, if your lucky enuff, you'll find your true love.
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Originally posted by thelousy@May 12 2005, 02:20 PM
well it all depends on what u wanna have either quick relation or long relation. If its long, follow my advice, it will come 2 ya. It juz hit ya without even u realising it till your about to either lose her or about to lose her. Quick relation? Head over to your nearest pub/disco/bar/placesyoucanfindlotsofgals and start hinting to them all, if your lucky enuff, you'll find your true love.
[snapback]47544[/snapback]I wouldn't suggest just running out and flirting with everyone, you could come across as desperate.
Anyhow, I wonder why Solar started this Topic? - Is there a future Ms. Solar Knight out there~?
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Originally posted by Solar Knight@May 12 2005, 05:35 AM
Anyone have advice for finding love? I don't care about sex at all, to be honest, but I'd like to just be in a romantic relationship (I'm a lame-ass :lol: ).
[snapback]47180[/snapback]he juz wan some love for the future mrs solar knight ^^
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Originally posted by Oi Sanji@May 12 2005, 10:23 AM
Anyhow, I wonder why Solar started this Topic? - Is there a future Ms. Solar Knight out there~?
[snapback]47547[/snapback]Aside from me needing it, this thread was inevitable ;) .
(Mrs. Solar Knight… hmm...)
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Observe a girl until you feel you know her type, and when you see her around alone, or if she's near you in a class or something, just make small talk. Try to make her laugh. If she's not in a class, try to bump into her again sometime soon. I don't think you should just run up to her.
Just take things slow, and subtly ask for her number one day. Be very casual, and don't get on the romantic tip for a while.
Oh, and beware of the Girls' Network. Just assume that everything you say and do is logged.
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Originally posted by Solar Knight@May 11 2005, 04:35 PM
Anyone have advice for finding love? I don't care about sex at all, to be honest, but I'd like to just be in a romantic relationship (I'm a lame-ass :lol: ).
[snapback]47180[/snapback]Wow, Solar. you're the first person in here, that's actually stated that, and for that i salute you. You're not a least bit lame, i don't know who gave you that idea. :lol:
I just HAD to say that. :lol:
Guess i'm pretty useless in here, so i'd better get out. :lol:
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When your talking to your perspective love, be honest. I don't mean be superly blunt, just don't lie about stuff, thats important.
Most of all, follow your instinct, use your power of observation, you'll know when it's time to make a move because you'll feel it.
One more important thing: No hesitation! Sure being nervous is normal, but don't let it stop you! Hesitation only leads to missed opportunities.
Make sure you know what your going after. Women have a certain power over men, some of them use it to take advantage of you, some of them don't use it at all. Don't let them use you! A woman who is truly interested in you won't try to sway you with her wiles, at least not directly.
Thats all I can think of for now.
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Wow. Some good answers and some bad answers. And the wisest one says, "Do it like Hollywood. Be like Bond…... James Bond. Smooth like velvet, with a mouth that can make miracles, and a body and face that exudes charisma."
In earnest, asking advice for finding love is like asking for advice on what the best fast food is. Is it Burger King, McDonalds, Good Times, Taco Bell, Subway, or... or... Chipotle? It's just everybody is different and their approach might not fit yours. But to learn and love and later hate is to try or else you will end up lonely (and you do not want that, despair is a horrible thing). Actually do something or your love life will be zip, zilch, nil, zero... nothing... You get what I mean. But understand this, you have to have courage. By the way, the answer to the previous question was obviously Chipotle (if this chain hasn't hit your area yet, you're missing the best!!!)
Chin up, chin up, my man! There's a girl around the corner, look at that twinkle in her eyes, you know she's the one. Go after her! Now! Best of luck to ya.
PS. And you are no "lame-ass". Don't even think of that! That's a very admirable trait: to be brave and ask for help when you need it, not like some guys who will keep their mouth shut even when life is falling out from under their own feet.
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well, if ya really wanna know whether the gal your with(any actually) could be your next mrs solar knight, first thing is that u are comfortable with her. secondly she to be comfortable with u. if that all happens, chances of both of ya being in a relationship is very very high. but do keep your pants zipped unless the gal jump u or something. i nvr liked getting laid in a relationship till ya married.