I think today I realized what a horrible person I can be…but I'm still very confused.
Here's the story; My boyfriend took a year in Advertising last year. While taking the course he met and was often grouped with this girl, let's call her K. So he quickly finds out she is very promiscuous, and also really starving for attention 24-7. She often faked claims of pregnancy, started fights with women, got drunk almost every weekend, etc. She's also two-faced to the extreme (personal experiences with her v.s what she claims on Facebook)
Fast forward to the summer. My bf checks Facebook and sees a message from K. He opens the message to see several naked pictures of her, top and bottom. Long story short he deletes K, the pictures, any contact with her, etc.
Now, my bf and K never hung out after school...and he really doesn't like her, but he's not one to tell people he doesn't like them. He's really nice to everyone. But last night he receives a phone call from her in the middle of the night, she's crying. She says she cut herself and the only thing stopping her from not finishing the job is for my bf to talk her out of it. Eventually he gets her to call an ambulance, and they hang up...
So, I hate K, basically. But when I heard the story my first thought wasn't really worry for K's life or sympathy...it was more anger. Anger that she called the guy I love in the middle of the night (btw we don't know how she got his number), threatening her life, even though they haven't talked for at least 3 months, and they only "knew" each other for about a year.
I feel awful and I said some things in anger to my boyfriend (not directed at him) that I regret. I hope K gets through whatever the hell is happening to her, but really I just want her to leave me and him out of it. If that's selfish and heartless then fine...