@Arei:
This weekend was just all kinds of special.
I went to a health seminar with my mom's friend out of town. My mom failed to mention she wouldn't be coming with me until right before I left and I've been so tired and sleep deprived from this job that I really just wanted to rest and relax but she insisted I go. And in the end it was worth it because I technically learned so many great things AND improved my own well-being.
Why is your mother friends with her?
I was beyond miserable. I have never been around the biggest bitch. I don't know how to explain it simply without going into a long story but basically there was an obstinate 4 year old in this grown woman's body and while I never said anything negative, complained, questioned her, made any sort of offensive gesture, rushed or hurried her, or did anything in anyway offensive or rude, she treated every action and thing I did like a personal offense. I couldn't say anything because she was definitely the type to have dumped my ass and drove off and I was 4 hours from home so I couldn't risk that, but I have no plans on ever doing anything with her again.
I've had this before. Its weird when you discover these kind of people. Its like a female version of Benjamin button that actually turned out to be an asshole from day 1.
I don't bother letting oversensitive people into my inner circle/comfort zone any more. They bring out the worst in me; as I sometimes like to toy with them. If someone is willing to carry a 'walk on eggshells around me' attitude, I'll just do the opposite to make it clear it wont fly with me. Everyone gets treated the same, and no I'm not going to make special arrangements for a shitty personality, but accept some people have shitty days.
I tend to find these people self-obsessed, selfish jerks… that tend to add nothing positive or good in return of the effort of kindness you may offer. They just tend to exist, and live off of leaching the good in peoples lives.
She also got pissed off at me on the way home when I had my head phones on and tried to take a nap and she would start talking to me about whatever shit was on the radio and I'd have to take my headphones off and ask what she said. Seriously. I have never seen anyone just invent so many ways to be pissed off out of thin air before.
Does she have a disorder.
I wish I was better with words because when she started to berate and mock the instructor of this class when he made a mistake VERY LOUDLY, I wanted to chew her a new one. It's one of those types of people you just can't win with. There's no way she can work as a natural healer, her personality and energy are toxic, and if she actually listened instead of being a hotty totty bitch, the instructor basically said people like her are worthless in this field.
Or just worthless in general. And the odd thing is, that all though these kind of people are incredibly rare to come across…they still exist. I guess im just perplexed what makes a human like that. Or how they made it that far in life. Like what incredibly twisted upbringing or issues came together to create such a messed up personality?
I'm also proud of myself because this was the first time I've dealt with an unreasonable person and I didn't so much as make a face or angry body gesture. I kept my voice positive/neutral and never ever said anything offensive. Yet she took it all as offensive, anyway. I learned a lot from this class that really wasn't the point, like smiling and staying neutral with people. I hope to use that to not get so worked up over asshole customers at work.
Exactly. Most of the time those shitty customers just want attention, or an excuse to blow up even more, and vent the crap of their life onto someone that doesn't deserve it. Usually just to belittle someone and add some kind of warped confidence to their douchery.
Then that bitch even threw my food on the street when I was getting my stuff out of the car. I'm 5000% done.
I would have gone halves on a murder charge with you if that was OUR food lol.
She takes offensive at everyone else but she can't respect the few things I ask, like not turning on all the lights when she gets up to go to the bathroom at night or leaves the fucking door open to the shower room and get the hotel room scorching hot when I've said how uncomfortably hot it already was.
The temp over here is 44c, and I can tell you I'm exactly the same. Whats the point of having the air con on, if it has to battle a blazing hot breeze coming in constantly. Some people just don't understand this basic logic.
Its like putting a humidifier, and dehumidifier in the same room, just to watch them fight it out.
And to be a bitch, even though it was like 73 degrees, when we got in the car to leave she turned the heat all the way up just to piss me off (even though she ALWAYS had the air on even when it was cold). I didn't budge so she turned it back to cold after awhile, but wow. How spiteful can you get over absolutely nothing?
How? just how did you hold back? I would honestly beat someone into the curb if they tried that. Fuck I hate people being childishly spiteful. You need to kick this weirdo out of your (and your mothers) life. She's just going to become long term liability otherwise.
I'm going to block her number on my phone and she better not dare try to speak to me again.
At least have some fun with it first XD.
I agree that medicine can be totally dangerous. It completely changes many personalities and just turns people into a "shell". And it's miserable to go through the process until you find something that won't leave you like that. It took a long long long time and many things before I found the right stuff that definitely worked well and didn't make me feel any different. I went through so much shit.
It was pretty new in my day too. I heard the batch I was on actually had some pretty bad effects on some people over a long period. I'm glad I only lasted 6 months on it, which in all honesty was only because I was fed up of my behavior at school effect my mother so much.
And yeah, people who don't believe it, I too really have seen people who label themselves with a sexual orientation they don't actually adhere to. It's definitely not the same thing as being "fluid", it's just milking for attention. People can be that desperate and stupid. And people definitely misuse the ADHD label.
I've seen my fair share. And sadly some IRL too. That said; some of them are pretty damn funny to watch.
I used to work with a guy (he was gay). Who tried to do his very best to be as flamboyant as possible, and play the 'gay' or 'discrimination' card often; yet complete the same sentence with racist or sexist quips. (hypocrisy at its best)
He was like the living incarnation of an extremely trashy jerry springer episode.
And to no surprise most of the women I knew wanted to level him.
Though if the US didn't have the most terrible food supply in the developed world, things would probably be a lot different. Many people can be completely "cured" of ADHD and other issues by changing and eliminating the processed junk and excess sugar from their diet, but its insanely expensive to do so :/ and time consuming.
I never knew your diet could have THAT much of an impact. (Aside from sugar and caffeine)
I went on a diet on meat and veg a while back, and have to say I noticed a great difference. (mostly relating to my energy levels) I'm off it now, but still avoid sweets, high carbs and junk food. I'd prefer to eat a bowl of peas or green beans than anything else. The pros of loving veggies I guess. :D
I'm going to eventually try to commit to doing a non sugar/non bread/flour diet to try to help with allergies and see what else it can fix. I've got to do a lot of planning and make everything in advance or it's not gonna work.
Let us know how it goes. I wouldn't mind trying out something new if it will benefit my physical or mental health.