This is probably just me being overly cautious, but I was wondering how the sending private messages works, Does the message just get sent to that user or does it stay in my profile until I send it, Because my messages seem to be in a folder on my profile
They're just like emails…
They aren't on your profile - nobody else but you can see them. But, you do have a "sent" folder, so you probably want to make sure you clear that out periodically because they do count towards your inbox limit.
Oh, okay so they actually did get sent