@Nami:
O_O…
Wow, that was... rather fast XD
Congratulations :)
@trappedolphin:
OF COURSE I REMEMBER. XD
That's quite fast yeah, but I'm happy for you :):):) Congrats!! When is the wedding~?
@metteminne:
How come so fast?
Thanks guys :D
Yeah, it seems fast, i'll try to 'splain it a bit for those interested. We're both muslim, and in Islam we don't practice dragged out premarital relationships, from the very beginning it is known "I'm getting to know you for the purpose of marriage". This is totally opposite to western culture, and I totally understand how it seems all "OMG SO FAST, HOW DO YOU KNOW HE'S THE ONE?! WHAT IF HE'S HIDING THINGS" etc, but I find it to be a comfort and makes me feel secure. When we first started talking this past while, he made it known to me that he's interested in me and wants to get to know me for the purpose of marriage. It shows that he's committed and not playing around, shows that he's serious and not looking to back out, that he's in this for keeps. I've experienced a broken heart, and it's one of the worst feelings you can ever feel, so i'm glad to follow these rules and just get married :) I'm not scared at all, i'm looking forward to spending my life with him!
Then we started talking and discussed big issues to the both of us, got a feel for what exactly each of us is looking for in a spouse, technical questions etc. Then he met my family, I met his family, and somewhere in between that we fell in love. And i'm just.. very happy :) He's very mature, and we have SO much in common and are so similar in personality that it feels like I've known him for like 15 years. We clicked instantly. We both feel like this was meant for us, and we're both very much excited to be married :D
This sounds incredibly mushy and gross but really, I feel that this is true love, we both feel that it is, the type that's not going to wear out, the type that will last until we grow old. I've never been the type to want to date around and have lots of relationship experience, i've always been looking for that one companion that I want to spend my life with, and i've been patient, and asked God to give me someone who is good for me and who is compatible with me and who would love me, my match. I've got what I wanted, and faster than I imagined. So, that's about it :)
Oh and trapped, we're having our religious ceremony in a few weeks, and then the big one next year :)
@Don:
Congratulation, but i don`t remember that guy..but he must be a good one when you want to marry him ;)
Thank you :D Yes, he's quite the guy