Hey..
i started to date a girl on september (the first girl)
..and we realy like each other
..so i was thinking..
i should buy a Nurse outfit for her on this Christmas?
Im not tryng to Force sex..i just like the outfit (is a normal outfit..not a sexy outfit)
or she will be scared ?
..the point is..it is to early ?
About Nurses and Christmas
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Nurse outfit? You mean scrubs?
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no..
the old ones..
with the hat -
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Uh, I'm not sure if I'm at liberty for this, but buying a costume for Christmas seems a bit odd this early in a relationship, doesn't it? Unless you have reason to know she likes costumes (like she has a closet full of cosplay, and a nurse costume isn't one of them) I'd imagine it would be seen as an unusual gift, rather than a loaded one.
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yeah..she already did some cosplay..
..but never a nurse cosplay
but again..a outfit as a christmas gift is a little weird..Ok..thanks,Malintex Terek..
Maybe I will whait another opinion -
As a female, I would be a tad unnerved by such a gift so relatively early on in the realtionship, yes. I agree with Terek on this one, I'm afraid.
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Thanks I.S.T.B.C.
maybe I'll buy later -
my question is, is that a gift for you or for her? sounds more like a gift for you. :P hint to her to get one for christmas for you. ask some lady friends something nice you can get her. buy something that shows you care and respect her. one of those sentimental gifts us girls always go for. unless she's a big tomboy or a nerd. (i'm not much for perfume or make up myself)
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i was thinking it was a gift for both of us..
THE NEXT MORNING
So..Thanks everyone
I figured I'll write a song for her -
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Nurse outfit? This early? "For the both of you"?
No. Don't do it. That sends all the wrong signals, even if it's not necessarily a sexy outfit. A song is a good choice, personal things that have a real emotional meaning are always better than some material thing that'll be forgotten by the end of the month.
But honestly, I don't even know your girlfriend. She could like or appreciate a whole variety of things, it's not like there's some rule that says "All girls like this." It's not that easy, no matter how many people tell you otherwise. Follow your gut, and I'm sure she'll love it. As long as it's not a nurse costume.
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.LOL
when i said "For both of us"
I ment
She can dress it (and liked)
and i would like to see her on it
put..people said here that this idea was Too Risky
So i will Write and Play a song for her
Thanks for the advices -
How about getting her an outfit of a subject she is familiar with. Do you know any characters or themes she's already dressed up as?
Or perhaps just vouchers to a cosplay shop. (if that kind of place exists)
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A nurse outfit is just terrible, no matter how long you're dating.
Why not a maid outfit? LoL -
because i like nurses,^^
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when i said "For both of us"
I ment
She can dress it (and liked)
and i would like to see her on it
put..people said here that this idea was Too Risky
So i will Write and Play a song for her
Thanks for the advicesi mean this in the nicest way possible, but to me, that's the same thing as "here's a blender. she can use it, and i can like the food she makes"
dude. for HER! HER! not for you. <3 good luck with whatever you get her.
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Get her an apron and a set of cutlery.
She will fall in love with you all over again.
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..come on..
Captain Usopp
this selfish act is stupid
but..i already said..(i guess no one listen..)
i WILL play a song for her..
this nurse outfit was just a crazy idea i had
(..you know..those ideas that "in the start they look cool,but later,you see how stupid it is" )