both sound slightly sleazy either way
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I'm In Love
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2nd > if u r in a hry
Hehe. This made me chuckle. I wonder if that was intentional. Anyways, I am married, so don't ask me for advice.
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Wouldn't that make you more qualified to give advice about this kind of thing than most other people on this forum?
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No. Most teenagers don't want to date someone to marry them. That's what my advice leads to. Plus, since I am married, you could argue that my advice is "old".
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Do it.
If you don't, she'll never know and she might end up dating someone elseThat's happened to me before (except it was with a guy in my situation.. but same thing regardless) I didn't tell the guy I liked him, he found a girlfriend, and I was left wondering what could've been
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Hey Snake Ill be there for moral support so you wont feel as weird. Plus everyone is right you do have a lot in common so you could either go for it or I could ask her "What do you think about Bobby?" without telling her you like her. Its up to you. Good Luck.
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Thanks
@Buuhan1:Our opinion is as good as any selling out guy who reads from a script on a talk show. Why shouldn't he ask here? This is a forum he's a part of for a series he enjoys, this is as good a place as any.
Kiro-
I Think You Are A Thread Killer
You Have Killed Like All Of My ThreadsI Think They Hate You More Than Then Hate Me
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Curiosity +12
Horniness (??)ROFFLLE!!! This guy's hilarious!
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@Naked:
Thanks
Kiro-
I Think You Are A Thread Killer
You Have Killed Like All Of My ThreadsI Think They Hate You More Than Then Hate Me
Eh? Who's "Kiro"? Am I the thread killer? If so, I'll leave. o_o;
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I've been through exactly this, very recently. (The last three years or so…) The sucky part of such a situation is, if you've been good friends long enough, even if she also feels potentially romantic towards you, it could still be akward and scary enough that she might turn you down if you asked, or its kept her from saying anything.
Best thing to do is just toss it out there, see how she reacts. Best case scenanario if you tell her, she says she feels the same, you hook up and proceed from there with smooching. Worst case scenario, she says she doesn't, but you continue to feel the same way. You know the girl, we don't, you have to be the judge.
Though if you've known her for three years, if she were interested, something likely woulda have happened by now. Just tell her she's one of your favoritest people in the world and you never get tired of hanging out and talking to her, and that... on top of all that, you really have wondered for a long time and just needed to know one way or another how she felt about you, so you can stop being stupid and beating yourselfself up about it.
If you've been friends for three years, she can probably deal with being told once or twice that you like her that way, take it as a compliment, and in fact is probably already aware of the fact, even if it hasn't been said outloud. It may be akward and she may be quiet for a bit, but at least then you can stop dwelling on what ifs and she knows.
What it boils down to is this. If tomorrow, she were to start dating someone, would you then the entire tume they dated, keep beating yourself up and saying "If only I'd asked one day sooner who knows what might have happened?" That's not a fun thing to live with, especially not for months at a time. If you've known her three years, she can take the one time compliment and then just don't bring it up again.
The way you talk makes it sound like you feel the way I feel about the girl I have craziness about, your speech pattern is just right for that specific brand of infatuation and "In love"ness. Go for it. Good things could happen.
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Eh? Who's "Kiro"? Am I the thread killer? If so, I'll leave. o_o;
Kiro=My Friend Kiro Tsubuki(Tim)
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Wear something nice when you do it too. Something like suspenders and a bowtie, preferably large.
Since you're black a hi-top fade is a must in terms of haircut.Before asking pull up your suspenders all the way.
Make sure the sound of your voice is squeaky, like a clown horn.
Add as much stuttery laughter as possible to each sentence. -
WTF is wrong with you?
Survivor of the Ivotas Holocaust!
XboxLive Gamertag: Big Evil99
Addiction defines Gravity. Speed over addiction
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@Deltron:
Wear something nice when you do it too. Something like suspenders and a bowtie, preferably large.
Since you're black a hi-top fade is a must in terms of haircut.Before asking pull up your suspenders all the way.
Make sure the sound of your voice is squeaky, like a clown horn.
Add as much stuttery laughter as possible to each sentence.Steve Urkel…...
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Have you told/asked her out yet? If you haven't, I suggest talking to her friends first. You guys have been friends for a long time, so you probably have the same friends right? If that's the case ask someone you know won't tell her
how you feel outright, preferably a girl.You should know though that even if she does like you and you're sure you love her, the relationship might not work out. You might get bored of her(as bad as this sounds) or just realize you never liked her that much. If I were you I'd meet more girls before asking the girl you like out. Also, don't do anything too over the top.
I, myself, liked a girl my senior year of high school and went all out on valentine's day and she ended up rejecting me. I liked her a lot, but the worst part about that situation is that then when you wanna ask other girls out it makes it awkward.
I actually started going out with a different girl about two months after and to ask her out I had to do something even flashier than what I did for the other girl on valentine's day because I didn't want her to feel like a rebound. She brings that incident up every now and then. I'm lost in thought but just remember a few key points.
*Ask her friends how she feels about you.
*Have a backup plan(I mean, get to know more girls.) You never know who you'll like and who will like you.
*Remember life goes on.
*If you do go out, give her space in the beginning.- Try not to get jealous.
*And take it slow.
- Try not to get jealous.
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@Indian:
Have you told/asked her out yet? If you haven't, I suggest talking to her friends first. You guys have been friends for a long time, so you probably have the same friends right? If that's the case ask someone you know won't tell her
how you feel outright, preferably a girl.You should know though that even if she does like you and you're sure you love her, the relationship might not work out. You might get bored of her(as bad as this sounds) or just realize you never liked her that much. If I were you I'd meet more girls before asking the girl you like out. Also, don't do anything too over the top.
I, myself, liked a girl my senior year of high school and went all out on valentine's day and she ended up rejecting me. I liked her a lot, but the worst part about that situation is that then when you wanna ask other girls out it makes it awkward.
I actually started going out with a different girl about two months after and to ask her out I had to do something even flashier than what I did for the other girl on valentine's day because I didn't want her to feel like a rebound. She brings that incident up every now and then. I'm lost in thought but just remember a few key points.
*Ask her friends how she feels about you.
*Have a backup plan(I mean, get to know more girls.) You never know who you'll like and who will like you.
*Remember life goes on.
*If you do go out, give her space in the beginning.- Try not to get jealous.
*And take it slow.
Thanks:happy:
I'll Take The Advice - Try not to get jealous.
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Steve Urkel…...
Oh, there you are! I've been looking everywhere for you, Captain Obvious! Slowsville needs your help! State quickly!
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Heh, virgin.
pulls up suspenders
This fucker is hysterical!
Is this person new or what? Even that top cat avatar is…priceless! -
lol this @ this page
anyways SNAKE did you ask her yet?
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just do it. Worst thing that can happen is she'll say no… and lets look at this objectively... if you had nothing to begin with you had nothing to lose.
This might have already been said but I would say the best idea is to make firends first, good friends and do this slowly overtime. Worm your way in so that she WANTS you to ask etc.
also... dont use the word love until its mutual and you mean it. I've been with my girlfriend 5 years and we worked hard to put some meaning in it.
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My advice? Don't do it, you'll regret it later.
OT: Why do you capitalize every first letter of every word? It's very annoying and makes your posts hard to read quickly.
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It could be a little flair that Naked likes to put into his posts.
But I agree with the advice, if you don't do it you'll regret it and you won't get another shot.
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Just be aware that what you feel isn't love.
You know love is love when you don't need to add a qualifier to it as you did in your first post. Love as it exists between a couple is undefinable and different for each, but since you haven't even confessed your feelings let alone considered what it might be like if you live the rest of your lives together, gotten angry as hell over stupid shit but still make up because you can't stand to make your significant other sad, living on a one-person income heavily in debt on a strict budget where you can only spend $15 a day on food for the two of you, but loving every moment of it, I'd say what you're feeling right now may be a seed of love, but not true love.
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
I didn't date until I was in college and I went through 2 semi-serious 1 serious relationship before I found the one.
There are many, many, many, many, many, many, many people in the world. And there are countless chances for you to find someone that matches you. If you are turned down it means LITERALLY nothing. In fact being dumped is one of the greatest things in the world.
If I wasn't dumped I wouldn't have met Haru.
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A well-classed Greg appears! He casts KNOWLEDGE! It's super-effective!
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My advice? Don't do it, you'll regret it later.
OT: Why do you capitalize every first letter of every word? It's very annoying and makes your posts hard to read quickly.
Force Of Habit
I Cant Type For Shit So I Applogize For The Inability To Read FastJust be aware that what you feel isn't love.
You know love is love when you don't need to add a qualifier to it as you did in your first post. Love as it exists between a couple is undefinable and different for each, but since you haven't even confessed your feelings let alone considered what it might be like if you live the rest of your lives together, gotten angry as hell over stupid shit but still make up because you can't stand to make your significant other sad, living on a one-person income heavily in debt on a strict budget where you can only spend $15 a day on food for the two of you, but loving every moment of it, I'd say what you're feeling right now may be a seed of love, but not true love.
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
I didn't date until I was in college and I went through 2 semi-serious 1 serious relationship before I found the one.
There are many, many, many, many, many, many, many people in the world. And there are countless chances for you to find someone that matches you. If you are turned down it means LITERALLY nothing. In fact being dumped is one of the greatest things in the world.
If I wasn't dumped I wouldn't have met Haru.
I'm In Awe In The Presence Of Greatness
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You should go for it, be a man and accept rejection if it will happen. Rejection is a part in everyone's life. Since you both are Otaku fellows and seems to have lots of things in common I'm sure you both will make a good couple. Don't let the girl stuck in your mind forever though it's unhealthy…
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Just be aware that what you feel isn't love.
You know love is love when you don't need to add a qualifier to it as you did in your first post. Love as it exists between a couple is undefinable and different for each, but since you haven't even confessed your feelings let alone considered what it might be like if you live the rest of your lives together, gotten angry as hell over stupid shit but still make up because you can't stand to make your significant other sad, living on a one-person income heavily in debt on a strict budget where you can only spend $15 a day on food for the two of you, but loving every moment of it, I'd say what you're feeling right now may be a seed of love, but not true love.
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
I didn't date until I was in college and I went through 2 semi-serious 1 serious relationship before I found the one.
There are many, many, many, many, many, many, many people in the world. And there are countless chances for you to find someone that matches you. If you are turned down it means LITERALLY nothing. In fact being dumped is one of the greatest things in the world.
If I wasn't dumped I wouldn't have met Haru.
You, sir, might be the smartest person in all these forums. And I'm not just saying that to kiss ass, it's pretty much true.
I remember I was "in love" with someone, but a few years later, I realized it wasn't true love.
It could be a crush, probably, but I don't think you're (Naked Snake) really in love. Also, Like what the guy above me said, don't let her get stuck in your mind.
I can't really say much, since I've never been in love, so I might sound like a wannabe smartass or something. I'm just telling you this from my experience, and all I can say is what you're feeling isn't love, what I felt wasn't love, and what most young couples that you or I know feel isn't true love.
I'm not the one to stop you, though. If you really want to, go for it. It's your life, not mine. I don't really think she'll reject you, anyway.
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I Told Her Via Deviant Art & She Said She Was Happy & She Liked Me Too
But She Felt Like She Was Stuck In Some Shojo Manga
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BAD! hits with newspaper Bad bad bad! Telling her over deviantART?! BAD! wrack Tho I suppose it's not too bad, cause that way one can think and take it all in without having to face someone or be in a place you aren't comfortable.
But congrats, but try talking to her face to face now… that's gonna be mighty awkward.
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Hopefully, I'm not too late and you haven't confessed yet. EDIT: Haha geez, I'm too late.
You like her, we've all been there. The question is how do you tell her.
First thing, Jace is a girl and girls are human beings. Human beings die. Jace will die eventually, so you don't need to think of her as some mystical goddess.
Second, you talk with her which is awesome, but let's pray that for the three years you've been talking/associating with her that she hasn't put in the friend zone. Chances are she has, no problem you just need to approach this "confession" another way. If you confess to her and tell how you loved her for the past 3 years, it might be a little weird and could potential harm your friendship.
If you just talk with her and suggest that you two should hang out, like it's not big deal. Chances are she'll appreciate that more than you running up to her and telling her that you've 'loved' her for the past 3 years.
Lack of confidence because of your race? Fuck that. The last girl who said that to you, obviously lost the chance to meet you. When you talk/confess to Jace don't think about how much fun you'll have with Jace, think about al the fun Jace will have with and how she's loosing out if she doesn't take the chance.
Just do it, even if it doesn't work out, there are plenty of birds out there. This is coming from a guy who use to find out which girls liked anime and would then smother them with gifts and make big dramatic confessions. It doesn't work.
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Are you saying the smooth Mr. Strings once didn't have it? You're the fricken Fonz of Arlong Park! EVERYTHING I KNOW IS A LIE!
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@Naked:
I Told Her Via Deviant Art & She Said She Was Happy & She Liked Me Too
But She Felt Like She Was Stuck In Some Shojo Manga
& Didnt Know What To DoWe've got the /s/l, but what's the a/?
This sounds like a situation that would've happened to me when I was 14.
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We've got the /s/l, but what's the a/?
This sounds like a situation that would've happened to me when I was 14.
What Does That "/s/" Stuff Mean
I Talk To Her More Now
But When I Told Her
I Didnt Ask Her Out,I Just Told Her How I felt& Recently She's Been Sick So I Did The Manga Thing & Put My Forehead To Hers To Check Her Temp & Then We Laughed For Like 15 Min Talking About How That Never Works
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a/s/l = age / sex / location
RuNa wants to know how old you are.
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And when you have grandchildren you can remember these things.
Chuck Norris VS Everyone from naruto
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@Naked:
Recently She's Been Sick So I Did The Manga Thing & Put My Forehead To Hers To Check Her Temp & Then We Laughed For Like 15 Min Talking About How That Never Works
She Made Me Sick XD
That's So Moe.
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@Yusuke:
And when you have grandchildren you can remember these things.
Wanna know the freaky thing? Just as we find things outdated now when told stuff like this. By that time, they'll be "The Internet? God, how old are you guys again?"
… or maybe that's not the case. Or maybe the "internet" will just be called something else by then... Or maybe the internet will... BE REAL.
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I'm Going To Her House Friday To Watch Bleach The Movie 1st
We Both Like Each Other So Is It Cool To Try & Suck Face During An Awkward Silence
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@Naked:
I'm Going To Her House Friday To Watch Bleach The Movie 1st
We Both Like Each Other So Is It Cool To Try & Suck Face During An Awkward Silence
duh huh, yeah bro
