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Namisan18

Have you ever felt detached from yourself? I mean by this is that your living just to see the end of the day. Nothing to look forward to or nothing that get you exited as they used to. I donâ€t know itâ€s probably in my head but I feel so agitated. Lifeâ€s okay but it stills feel kinda blahâ€¦Its like Iâ€m not living my life or living a life for that matter. Maybe Iâ€m in my house too much (but I hate outside; people and bugs.) Someone told me it was depression but I donâ€t feel sad. Maybe I think too muchâ€¦

I know I sound like Iâ€m whining but this has been going on since this past summer and itâ€s been over a year now.

What do you guys think? Please respond.

warp

Originally posted by Namisan18@May 7 2005, 09:23 PM
**Have you ever felt detached from yourself? I mean by this is that your living just to see the end of the day. Nothing to look forward to or nothing that get you exited as they used to. I donâ€t know itâ€s probably in my head but I feel so agitated. Lifeâ€s okay but it stills feel kinda blahâ€¦Its like Iâ€m not living my life or living a life for that matter. Maybe Iâ€m in my house too much (but I hate outside; people and bugs.) Someone told me it was depression but I donâ€t feel sad. Maybe I think too muchâ€¦

I know I sound like Iâ€m whining but this has been going on since this past summer and itâ€s been over a year now.

What do you guys think? Please respond.
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maybe your depressed. or your scared about being an aldut soon…...... maybe thats why you have nothing to look foward to. idk

Spawnraven

Maybe it's because you just turned 18

But on a serious note, i think you should go out, have fun, forget hating everyone.

It's wouldn't be a bad idea to go on a short holiday, break the chain of repetitiveness in your life.

fin fish

I've had the exact same thing since last summer. Always makes me think of the first song from the Buffy musical. O_o.; Try just like.. making stuff or something. That's honestly why I love my cheap cosplay hobby so much, when I'm making things it makes me feel productive and happy. Otherwise I feel useless and want to die. x_x.;;

Namisan18

Another thing thats been at since the last summer is that i cant stand people. I don't know but the way people are. Its not just I feel detached from the my life but the people in my life. Since I was little I was the nice girl and I liked everybody. I don't know. My skin crawls when I think about people.

This is tottaly frustraiting…I'm sorry if I'm complaining too much...I just don't know whats wrong with me...

Cap'n Carter

Well, my days have been busy and annoying so I've felt that way too… and I've been depressed lately... yeah.

Buccaneer

Kinda me too. I just trudge through the school day. But have faith in the power of summer! I know I do. The thought of freedom makes me happy. Don't worry, it's just not a very exciting time. I'm sure something will compel you.

Awright '87!

lukia

Yeah I think I know how you feel. It actually does help to go out, do "stuff," or just look for anything remotely fun. My friend gave me some advice last yr to plan outings w/ friends beforehand so you have something to look for. At the beginning of this year, I used to make plans with several different friends so that I was going out every weekend shopping or watching a movie or sleeping over or something like that. Of course, back then I actually had the time to do that but….. that's beside the point ^_^;; It does give you something to look forward to and if you let yourself forget about "your worries" (lol) and just have fun, it gets rid of some stress too. I don't know if this'll be true for you as well, but for me, I don't think about "stuff" as often when I'm always busy, so it's good to just give yourself something to do.

Namisan18

Originally posted by Spawnraven@May 8 2005, 12:29 AM
**Maybe it's because you just turned 18

But on a serious note, i think you should go out, have fun, forget hating everyone.

It's wouldn't be a bad idea to go on a short holiday, break the chain of repetitiveness in your life.
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Maybe your right. But go where?

It not like i hate everyone but I cant stand the way people act. This might be hard to believe but I usually repress alot of the things people do and smile or if someone has a tottaly diffrent opinion than mine (especialy one I think is wrong) I would automaticaly agree. I can remember this since grade school. Arlongpark forums is the only place where I can feel free to speak my mind some what but not compleatly though.

Starlight

Sounds more like a depression problem. Don't worry, i'm sure it'll end soon. :lol:
If it doesn't, we're always here to help you out.

I don't get why you hate people though, did you have a bad experience with someone?.

fin fish

Oh, I get it, because I hate pretty much everyone. O_o.;;

Namisan18

Originally posted by Starlight@May 8 2005, 12:43 AM
**Sounds more like a depression problem. Don't worry, i'm sure it'll end soon.Â :lol:
If it doesn't, we're always here to help you out.Â

I don't get why you hate people though, did you have a bad experience with someone?.
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I don't hate people. I just hate the way people are.

Do you get what I'm saying?? It must be kinda confusing.

I'm not one of those people who is like oh I hate everybody so screw em all. Deep down I like people.

Physically I'm here with everyone but mentaly I'm feel far away and isolated.

lukia

**Another thing thats been at since the last summer is that i cant stand people. I don't know but the way people are. Its not just I feel detached from the my life but the people in my life. Since I was little I was the nice girl and I liked everybody. I don't know. My skin crawls when I think about people.

This is tottaly frustraiting…I'm sorry if I'm complaining too much...I just don't know whats wrong with me...**

Oh, I get it, because I hate pretty much everyone. O_o.;;

Yeah same….. and unfortunately, I haven't quite figured out that one yet... I always think why? to myself too, but I just can't stand "people" ..... It does get really annoying but the only thing I can say is.... try not to think about it as much as you can >_< I know they say don't run away from your problems, but it really does help not to think about it at times.

I haven't had the same problem, but do you mean how they act and how they are so selfish?

CosmicDebris

I've noticed in the past that the easiest way to fall into depression, or a funk, or just lackluster living is to think too much about yourself, and also to worry too much about tomorrow, while contemplating yesterday's mistakes. I'm happiest when I get out of myself. If you have been spending too much time inside, I think you maybe you should consider getting out and doing things that are fun. Even if it's by yourself. Being in nature always puts me in a different perspective, but you don't like bugs and outdoors…so I don't know what would do it for you. Take up martial arts so you can kick people's butts?
Nowadays, if I ever start to feel insignificant or hopeless, I remember that I was created with a purpose by someone infinately more loving and capable of carrying my burdens than I'll ever be, and so I can't really feel hopeless.

Spawnraven

Nami, it's agreed it's not because you hate people, maybe it's because you know the people around you so well.

Seeing the same faces everyday can be repetitive. Maybe you could go somewhere new, meet new faces, experience a new life.

Or you could try out something new, like mountain climbing or hiking (i know, it's so corny, but hell).

Even if it's for a few weeks or even a few days, i think it can be of great help.

As for where to go for a vacation, i don't know, where do you live, have you wanted to go somewhere, you know, wanted to but never got the chance.

Cap'n Carter

I understand what you're saying. Like, I really like my friends, and I have a lot of faith in them and other people as a whole, but sometimes I can really detest the way some of them are.

your in love same thing that happened with me when i was in love

Namisan18

Originally posted by lucciano_minhawk@May 8 2005, 02:23 PM
your in love same thing that happened with me when i was in love
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I reeeaaallly doubt that (since I don't believe in the thing). <_<

But you guys no matter what happens to me always make me feel better. I can talk to you guys honestly than my friends at school.

I hope I didn't burden you with my mental problems

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DON'T WORRY (bum bum bum bum bum) be happy (bum bum...)

Originally posted by Namisan18+May 8 2005, 04:58 PM–>QUOTE(Namisan18 @ May 8 2005, 04:58 PM)