My anxiety never shuts up. It changes from "shut up if you haven't got anything relevant/funny to say" to "speak Speak SPEAK!!!"
A bit of a conundrum.
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Better to say something dumb then to say nothing at all.
You need to make leaps, consequences be damned. Making mistakes is how we ALL learn. None of those suave dudes just became suave dudes, they just made their mistakes already, and probably have yet to make a great many more on some other part of their life you may beat them in already.
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Agh yeah folks, had that chocolate wine.
You know how most alcohol hours after drinking it might sort of still feel present in your system? You can almost barely just taste it in your system? And usually it's sort of a sickly aftershock?
The Chocho wine is doing that but it makes me feel extra fucking good instead.
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Alright, I'll give in to the dark side.
The only problem I have with alcohol (besides over-consumption) is the fear of puking and terrible "hangovers". Note that I put the word hangovers in quotes, so I mean I have never been drunk to the point (I'm not sure if you could say I was ever drunk at all) that I'll act really stupid and/or not remember a thing the next day.
My question is, what's the "smartest" way to consume alcohol? What makes you drunk faster and what's just plain dangerous? How much of what should you consume?
Also, I heard cocktails are one of the worst ways to get drunk, because some bartenders include more juice (or whatever's in there) than actual alcohol. That is, it just looks fancy, but it's not much in reality. Well, I doubt that applies to every bar and every cocktail in the world, of course.
Last one, what are those "shots" everybody keeps bragging about nowadays? "Oh dewd, I drank 6 shots yesterday" "WOW U DA MAN", what's this about? Are they worth a shot (no pun intended)? And "flaming shots"? < - That sounds like one of the worst ideas in history to me.
edit: Yeah, uh, I guess I should have mentioned I don't expect an answer, but meh, had to ask.
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First of all you
re waaay to young to drink! SO you don
t get any tipps how to get drunk fast etc.Shots are 2-3cl booze like here..
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and a flaming shot is this! Some booze over(i think) 40% is flameable.So you can inflame this booze in a short glass via a lighter orso.
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You misunderstood me, I don't want to get drunk fast, I'm trying to avoid it, actually. As for being young, yup, you're right, but it's fucking depressing watching all my friends talk about and consume booze just like when they were kindergartners and devoured huge amounts of sugar, while I sit next to them and preach "what's the point of this? what's the point of getting drunk?".
And yup, flaming shots still seem like a dumbass idea to me.
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Don't worry, I bet half of them have never drunk and are just pretending they drink to look cool and try have free pussy, the other half… well... drinks to look cool and try have free pussy, derp.
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A shot is a tiny glass you quickly drink in one go.
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You misunderstood me, I don't want to get drunk fast, I'm trying to avoid it, actually. As for being young, yup, you're right, but it's fucking depressing watching all my friends talk about and consume booze just like when they were kindergartners and devoured huge amounts of sugar, while I sit next to them and preach "what's the point of this? what's the point of getting drunk?".
And yup, flaming shots still seem like a dumbass idea to me.
if you wanna drink because YOU wanna drink, then go ahead. i'm not stopping you. don't drink cause "everyone else is doing it" who cares if you drink or not. I'm 30 and i don't drink often.
That being said, alcohol effects everyone differently. one of the reasons I don't drink a lot is cause I follow after my mom. I'm a light weight. my body can't handle a lot of alcohol. I start getting giddy for a bit, and then I just get sleepy. what fun is that.
give it a try, but don't feel you need to. and if everyone else is drunk, then they won't remember if you say something dumb. :P
just go out and be yourself. The thing is to find people who are right for you. everyone's different. they're into different things. you gotta find people who are like you. :)
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Don't worry, I bet half of them have never drunk and are just pretending they drink to look cool and try have free pussy, the other half… well... drinks to look cool and try have free pussy, derp.
As nerd as it is, you should wait until you're 18You misunderstood me, I don't want to get drunk fast, I'm trying to avoid it, actually. As for being young, yup, you're right, but it's fucking depressing watching all my friends talk about and consume booze just like when they were kindergartners and devoured huge amounts of sugar, while I sit next to them and preach "what's the point of this? what's the point of getting drunk?".
And yup, flaming shots still seem like a dumbass idea to me.
I agree, I don't drink. But from around 15, if you don't drink (in my city), it's like your a leper. Almost everyone else in my year group drinks and gets drunk loads, and it's so depressing because they're like the kind of people who are sheep, ie just do what the person next to them does.
They expect you to like the same interests as them, and can't accept some people are different. A lot of them have poor literacy skills and cry over football …
I mean I have no qualms against drinking. If the opportunity comes along where me and my pals go for a drink, I'll drink happily. But I just don't see the stigma associated with not drinking.
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life lesson: whatever happens in high school does not matter in the real world. Your hot shit in high school. get ready for a rude awakening in the real world. not very popular. don't worry. the real world isn't full of stupid teenagers.
sorry, trying not to offend. I judge people individually, but as a whole; I never even liked teenagers when I was one.
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http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:D33w4R_E_VkJ:www.purifymind.com/BuddhismAlcohol.htm+buddhism+alcohol&cd=1&hl=en&ct=clnk
Generally, Buddhism encourage you to master you mind and shut your anxiety up by your own mental ability and not by alcohol. -
Budism says that if I want I'm flawed, so if I want to stop being flawed I'm flawed?
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Budism says that if I want I'm flawed, so if I want to stop being flawed I'm flawed?
That's not what Buddhism says.
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@Sea:
http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:D33w4R_E_VkJ:www.purifymind.com/BuddhismAlcohol.htm+buddhism+alcohol&cd=1&hl=en&ct=clnk
Generally, Buddhism encourage you to master you mind and shut your anxiety up by your own mental ability and not by alcohol.@Sea:
That's not what Buddhism says.
http://apforums.net/showthread.php?p=1775470#post1775470Thank you Sea, I know these weren't directed at me, but these are very interesting and instructive pages–I've bookmarked them for more reading later. (and I never knew that the "Felch" thread was so deep.)